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Indonesian Family Commits ‘Honour Killing’ Against Teenager for Having Sex

belmarduk

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Members of a family in Bantaeng, South Sulawesi, Indonesia, murdered a 16-year-old girl after finding out that she had premarital sex and was allegedly involved in an affair with her 45-year-old cousin.

Rosmini, the victim, died after her own father Darwis allegedly ordered her brothers to stab her on May 9. They then took three neighbours and the 45-year-old cousin, Usman, hostage in their home.

Neighbours told local media that they believed the entire family was possessed and involved in black magic, but police later dispelled such rumours.

One hostage managed to escape and rush to a nearby police station to report that he saw a dead body in the house. After much resistance from the family, police entered the home and found Rosmini’s body.

Twelve people lived in the house where she was killed, including her father, his wife, in-laws, children, and grandchildren. Police believe all family members were present during the murder.

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DunDunDunpachi

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Police must've hired Constantine or Father Amorth or Sean Spencer on the side.
 

GymWolf

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Before i was born there was murder of honor or some similar shit where i live (sicily).

The husband could choose to kill his wife if his honor was in danger (basically the wife having an affair) without much ripercussions.

And italy is not some third world country (i mean, we are for a shitload of things but still...)
 

dcll

Banned
So let me get this straight, having sex is worthy of being killed over but you can kill someone and that isn't?
 

Mohonky

Member
So let me get this straight, having sex is worthy of being killed over but you can kill someone and that isn't?

Well to be clear here; it was the police who dispelled the idea the family was possesed and dabling in black magic and as we know, ACAB so its still a possibility
 
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Child gets murdered, pedophile gets off scott free....makes total sense and is in no way backwards as fuck. You all should be ashamed of applying your western morals on this highly respectable and noble culture.
 

Papa

Banned
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Lanrutcon

Member
Take every adult in that house and throw them in an incinerator. "Affair" with a 45 year old? Yeah. Right. Toss the rapey cousin in with them.

Absolute trash.
 

DeafTourette

Perpetually Offended
I've heard of this happening in Eastern European countries ... They think that the daughter/wife/female relative has brought dishonor because she "allowed" herself to be violated.
 

EverydayBeast

thinks Halo Infinite is a new graphical benchmark
No respect to that 45 year old for banging a teenager yeah I have a problem with someone banging a father's 16 year old daughter.
 

DeafTourette

Perpetually Offended
No you have not. You are a liar.


Certain Eastern European countries have recorded cases of HBV [honour-based violence] within the indigenous populations, such as Albania and Chechnya, and there have been acts of 'honour' killings within living memory within Mediterranean countries such as Italy and Greece.

 

Jayjayhd34

Member

Certain Eastern European countries have recorded cases of HBV [honour-based violence] within the indigenous populations, such as Albania and Chechnya, and there have been acts of 'honour' killings within living memory within Mediterranean countries such as Italy and Greece.



Just to add to that

The Assembly notes that whilst so-called "honour crimes" emanate from cultural and not religious roots and are perpetrated worldwide (mainly in patriarchal societies or communities), the majority of reported cases in Europe have been among Muslim or migrant Muslim communities (although Islam itself does not support the death penalty for honour-related misconduct).
 

DeafTourette

Perpetually Offended
Just to add to that

The Assembly notes that whilst so-called "honour crimes" emanate from cultural and not religious roots and are perpetrated worldwide (mainly in patriarchal societies or communities), the majority of reported cases in Europe have been among Muslim or migrant Muslim communities (although Islam itself does not support the death penalty for honour-related misconduct).

Albania and Chechnya don't have a large migrant Muslim community as far as I can tell... They are indigenous peoples who practice honor killings.
 

Sub_Level

wants to fuck an Asian grill.
No respect to that 45 year old for banging a teenager yeah I have a problem with someone banging a father's 16 year old daughter.

Which makes the story more frustrating since the brothers didn't even kill the 45 year old. They instead just killed their 16 year old sister.
 

MacReady13

Member
True story- I was 20 years old at the time (I'm an Italian/Australian) and my girlfriend at the time was Lebanese. This was almost 20 years ago... We were going out for 6 months but were really in love. I mean, we were talking about a future together and the works BUT, I couldn't be seen in public with her. We worked together and I would always see her father in the shopping centre with other women (yes, he was cheating on his wife). Her father was strict and, even though her mother knew about us, she disapproved of the relationship. It mattered not to us as we were in love.

After 6 months of sneaking around (she would tell her parents she was seeing a friend, then I'd meet her at the train station near my house to go out together) her mother decided that my girlfriend, her mother and youngest brother were going on a trip to Lebanon. My mother told me exactly what would happen but I was young, naive and in love with her that I didn't think it would happen.

She was to go overseas for 3 months. With 2 weeks left to go, she called me at my house in tears. She was forced to get engaged to some guy within her religion. She told me she fought it and said no, and once her father caught wind of it threatened to fly up and kill her. And he literally meant kill her, not just false bravado. Unfortunately there was nothing her or I could do about it, and she was stuck with a guy she didn't love.

My religion was the reason I wasn't allowed to stay with her (I was Catholic at the time, Atheist now). I have seen and spoken to her since then. She tried to get back together with me after she had been married and had 2 kids, but as I was already married with 2 kids of my own, I wasn't willing to go back with her. The feelings are still there for both of us, but unfortunately it never materialized in the way we both desperately wanted it to.

This "honor" killing is a fucking joke. If 2 people are in love or, in the case mentioned in the OP, wanting to fulfill a sexual desire, let them be! It is natural and the thought of killing a family member, especially your own child, is abhorrent. Fuck them and their beliefs.
 

CobraXT

Banned
still not as bad a allowing 6 years old kids to undergo hormonal theraby and surgeries to cut there genitals .. i am against honor killing but its hilarious western people are talking about this while allowing shit like trans kids to happen ! how can a kid decide such a thing ? this is some next level satanic shit
 
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Jayjayhd34

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still not as bad a allowing 6 years old kids to undergo hormonal theraby and surgeries to cut there genitals .. i am against honor killing but its hilarious western people are talking about this while allowing shit like trans kids to happen ! how can a kid decide such a thing ? this is some next level satanic shit

Worst thing I've seen about female genital surgery is a man condoning it by saying a majority of woman's clits are to big causing discomfort.........

That really sticks in my head
 

Pallas

Member
She didn’t deserve to die, don’t get me wrong, 45 with a 16 year old is pretty bad but what the fuck. She’s 16, nothing honorable about that. I honestly hope whoever planned and did the killing is charge to the fullest extent of the law in Indonesia.

Are these “honor” killings illegal in Indonesia?
 

Scotty W

Member
There is a lot of cultural misunderstanding going on in here.

Our western individualism makes it very difficult to think of our honor being sullied by the actions of a family member. But it is a powerful and pervasive force thru much of the world.

Second, looking at the story gives no indication if this had anything to do with Islam. Westerners do not generally recognize how powerful the fear of black magic can be in a lot of countries.

But I do not approve of honor killing.

On a side note, I felt weird typing this. Why is it that we talk about our society having made ‘progress’, and progress is a relative term, but we are not allowed to say that we have progressed beyond societies that perform honor killings and female genital mutilation? Ah, it is progress compared to what our society was before. Calling it progress legitimizes the current state of affairs. It is a groundless, circular, meaningless platitude, similar to how the word bigot acts.
 

Mattyp

Gold Member
Ahhh third world countrys, you just gotta love them, countrys filled with uneducated human garbage, nice.

Indonesia is far from third world these days, it's all to do with a Muslim majority islamic rule shit hole nothing else
 

10000

Banned
there are no such things as honor killing allowed in Indonesia, and even the muslims in Indonesia shunned upon the action of this family

this is just twisted and horrible, an example of the danger overdosing yourself with religion

Ahhh third world countrys, you just gotta love them, countrys filled with uneducated human garbage, nice.

well post like this indeed shows that you are both ignorant and uneducated too, regardless from what country you are
 

H4ze

Member
well post like this indeed shows that you are both ignorant and uneducated too, regardless from what country you are

Yeah ofc, whatever you say mate, at least I don't kill people over something as retarded as that. Please tell me more about my missing education, you seem to know me very well.
 

DeafTourette

Perpetually Offended
Their whole communities are Muslim. They are fully Muslim areas.

That wasn't my point. And not the context of what I originally said nor my reply to the person who called me a liar.

My point was that the indigenous peoples of those areas, including in Russia, carry out honor killings.
 
Yeah ofc, whatever you say mate, at least I don't kill people over something as retarded as that. Please tell me more about my missing education, you seem to know me very well.

Not saying I agree with the "honor" killing, but in the US people get killed over pretty stupid stuff too.
 
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