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Any horny people here tired of findom and escorts?

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I go on escort sites a lot since I'm single, and with how you get spoken to by these women online, it honestly makes me half glad to be single. Talk about having a narky aura about them.

Basically, most of the profiles on there I think are gallery scams. The members keep changing location. The same can be said about Fetlife as well. When you send them messages, you feel like you have to not step on anyone's toes for fear of being blocked, slandered, spoken to like rubbish, and whatnot. I understand that they in all fairness, likely get a lot of people mucking them about, or they may be doing "the job" to make ends meet, so I have a shred of sympathy for their situation. Their safety is paramount. But I think it's a two way street, to be honest.

I had somebody on my radar for a while, and she was touring in Edinburgh during the fall. So I signed up to her OnlyFans. Despite the fact you're paying for a subscription for to simp for them and gawk at their boring wank fodder, half the videos and pictures are still locked behind paywalls, and there's nothing that really stands out either. Then I attempted to book her on the appropriate site, and I gathered she must think the sun shines out of her arse. She said she doesn't see anyone without feedback, yet her profile completely omits that fact. It's more like an egotistical demand list, quite frankly. It doesn't sound very friendly at all, but she does look stunning. And she tours with women who are low key porn stars, and they charge ridiculous hourly rates and have enhanced boobs, and don't look nearly as attractive as her anyway. But it's a common theme. Say anything to break their all too delicate skin, and you'll be meeting the block party. It's very common and cut-throat of them to hit their red button so quickly, so don't expect to be giving a second chance. :(

I was talking to a girl on WhatsApp a few years ago, and she blocked me too. I wasn't too chuffed about that. Then she found me on another forum, and called me names. She emailed me because she found out my real name and address. You can see some really dodgy videos of her doing things I best not describe here, but I try not to judge them too harshly. And I didn't even know it was her at first, although I think it's all because some moron in Australia was spamming it on a forum that's no longer moderated, and that jackass has been such a thorn in my side, that I recently consulted with a lawyer in Western Australia - only to be told he requires a $30,000 fee upfront. I'd explained how this guy has been bothering me online for years, and the solicitor said they can still accept clients who are from overseas.

So she basically got sarcastic and said she has a torture room in her mansion in Scotland, or something, where we could shoot a movie with me "being the star of the show." I thought she was being a drama llama over nothing. So in response, I said she probably made men vanish. This was intended as counter sarcasm. I cannot quite remember how I worded everything. Then she got a lawyer just because I said that, making out I defamed her. I honestly had to laugh at how stupid the whole situation was, although it came as no surprise. I had to do a video link to a court, which I filmed, and all they did was butt in and barely listen to anything I said. But the bottom line is, they identify as sadists. So I mean, why bother thinking they're going to be in any way calm and civil, right? She even has a post on Twitter about wanting a shrine built in her honour when she dies. What the hell? :D

Apart from herself, there's all manner of women creating accounts on Twitter these days, purposefully posting saying sexist comments about guys, and thinking they're on a pedestal. But if you're a guy and you say something about women, they moan about it, and you never hear the end of their ranting. So how about taken their own sour tasting medicine for a change?

I went to a dungeon years ago, to meet a Spanish woman who was there temporarily. I only seen her twice. The next thing I know, I'm being slandered by somebody else on Twitter, who I never met. She looks like a Margot Robbie wannabe, with a bit of a dumb blonde and Catwoman look thrown in for good measure. Well, she was doing it along with the mistress who runs that joint, and now all of these women who coincidentally know her are doing it as well. But I've never said anything out of line to any of these ladies, so why they prefer to act so mollycoddled, I don't know.

They demand money, reimbursements, gifts, or whatever, and say you're a loser and stuff, while talking about how godly they are. So I really don't get why anybody would be daft enough to follow them, knowing they don't even value you as a person. They're ruthless and without a good bone in their body. Maybe not all of them are like this. You really do have to discard a lot of chaff husks to find any golden wheat, so to speak. But I was told though that if they do not offer aftercare following a BDSM session, then they're not a true dominatrix, which I don't think most of them are. And I'm not a woman hater. I just think technology has gone to their heads. It's only gonna get worse if people fall for this, and I'd consider it an embarrassment to be in their company.

At the end of the day, something that's supposed to relieve sexual tension for a socially dense autistic man such as myself, is essentially just grinding my gears, and it's feeling like a pointless side hobby now. But it's not like they will give a damn if they never spoke to your ass again. There's literally millions of loners out there that chase after their sad gimmick, and they know it too. So maybe it's time to call it quits.
 
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Jennings

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Do any of you use dating sites? I'd imagine you get a lot of folk larking about on them too, so that's another hard pass for me.

Why pay $30 or whatever on Plentyoffish to send a .GIF of a teddy bear or a wine bottle to a woman, when you can send it in an email for nothing? :D

Of course, that defeats the purpose of being a member and giving POF your custom. LOL.
 

TransTrender

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Not sure where you live but Canada has a program called MAID.
Otherwise you can always try to get on government care and then troon out or if you can afford your own titty skittles then just pay for it out of pocket.
Why pay for escorts when you can be the sexy lady everyone wants to slam?
 
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Saiyan-Rox

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Fwiw there's nothing wrong with sex work (as long as they're doing it because they want too)

But +1 on the comments about getting a therapist. Since you mentioned Scotland I assume you're in the UK and I know the NHS is so shit when it comes to mental health stuff so if you can go private do it.

I am and I'm hoping it works to sort out my shitty brain.
 
I've been with transgender people many times, but I was subjected to transphobic remarks from people after I said that. My mother understands, though. But it's pretty stupid to slag off people's sexuality in this day of age, because many gay singers for example are among the world's most commercially successful artists.

Some gay celebrities are just amazing people regardless. Tom Robinson, anyone? :D
 
To be honest, I think I've invited a lot of this crap by having low self-esteem. That doesn't make what they're doing in any way moral. But it is up to me to draw a line under it.

I've wanted to book "Riven Mercy" for a while, but she's such a flaky part-timer who doesn't answer your text messages, that I've more or less decided to wave the white flag.

Meh...

 
Granted, UKPunting is full of assholes. But the aim of that forum is to essentially rat out dodgy women who mislead people. So it's some misogynist babble, with truthfulness...
 
Yeah maybe meet someone in person.

And not under the conditions you're used to.

Well, I had a girlfriend years ago, who I met in the summer of 2005. She was an airhead. I hadn't seen her in years after that. She randomly contacted me a day after my grandmother's funeral, wanting to meet up at the cinema at Fountain Park in Edinburgh. That was back in 2012.

It was a disaster, but explaining everything would make for a longer rant than my initial post in this topic. But the long and short of it is that she was a user who just wanted me to waste my benefits on her stupid, conniving ass. She didn't treat me very nicely. Although I think she has bipolar, as I could sense she was having issues with keeping her mood in check.

I'd gotten her an iPod in an Argos store, which she quickly screwed up by jamming the charger cable in the wrong way. Then she basically lied and said somebody else did it. After I paid even more money to get it repaired, she was briefly okay after it was reinstated, but she soon started treating me like shit again. She kept lying about other things too, and she threatened to get the cops to lift me when I called her that summer. My money had been stopped for some reason, but when I mentioned it was back, she changed her tune.

You can probably imagine she was just happy to continue messing me around. It only ended once she quietly moved away again.
 

nush

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Granted, UKPunting is full of assholes. But the aim of that forum is to essentially rat out dodgy women who mislead people. So it's some misogynist babble, with truthfulness...

Shame the owner of Punternet sold it off and the new owners nuked the forum, then found the site didn't get as much traffic as before so brought back the forum but it was too late and the community had moved on. Now that was a good forum, everyone was chill as fuck.
 
I used to get these support workers assisting me years ago. They were employed for Autism Initiatives.

They're not trustworthy or very professional either, because one guy called Patrick started sending me dumb emails from Gumtree in 2008, with a lot of derogatory remarks about this deceased wrestler, Eddie Guerrero. He even said he was the one doing it.

Could he be blacklisted from being a carer for doing that shit? A the end of the day though, people like care staff and escorts are assholes, so it likely doesn't matter what job they are in. It's up to that person to behave, get their shit together, or they can go bugger off. They certainly don't need to be present in my vicinity.

Do you think people just pick up vibes that people like myself with autism are maybe the gullible, easily manipulated sort? It truly depresses me.
 
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