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Any horny people here tired of findom and escorts?

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
lol OP pays for sex.

Get some game.
 

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
reading that hurt my brain

sorry for how much it sucks
That's why tl;dr exists.
chris farley what the fuck GIF

Is findom financial domination or something?

Put up a savings account and dominate your finances yourself. And start lifting weights.

Always start lifting weights. Best of luck.
I would have thought it had something to do with a Finn fetish.
If you don't know who Emilia Suomi is, do your self a favor. She was mega hot in her early work.
 
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nush

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I'm just gonna stick to my nearest sauna. It's way cheaper, and the women are way more friendly. Probably because they answer to management, but even still...

There you go, independents are way too flaky. Parlors are where it's at. The owner has a reputation of the establishment to uphold. Poor service always gets the bad service providers booted out the door.
 
I've met a lot of nice sex workers, but not for a while. They all move on eventually. Maybe I'll try a dating site, as it cannot be any worse than wasting my time on Twatter.
 

anthony2690

Banned
Today I realised what a sheltered life I must live.

I found out escorting/prostitution is legal in the UK.

A website called ukpunting where people rate the lays they've paid for.

I just couldn't imagine paying someone who clearly doesn't want to sleep with you for money to fund their habit/or lavish life style.

It just seems genuinely really sad for everyone involved.
 
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Stitch

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I go on escort sites a lot since I'm single, and with how you get spoken to by these women online, it honestly makes me half glad to be single. Talk about having a narky aura about them.

Basically, most of the profiles on there I think are gallery scams. The members keep changing location. The same can be said about Fetlife as well. When you send them messages, you feel like you have to not step on anyone's toes for fear of being blocked, slandered, spoken to like rubbish, and whatnot. I understand that they in all fairness, likely get a lot of people mucking them about, or they may be doing "the job" to make ends meet, so I have a shred of sympathy for their situation. Their safety is paramount. But I think it's a two way street, to be honest.

I had somebody on my radar for a while, and she was touring in Edinburgh during the fall. So I signed up to her OnlyFans. Despite the fact you're paying for a subscription for to simp for them and gawk at their boring wank fodder, half the videos and pictures are still locked behind paywalls, and there's nothing that really stands out either. Then I attempted to book her on the appropriate site, and I gathered she must think the sun shines out of her arse. She said she doesn't see anyone without feedback, yet her profile completely omits that fact. It's more like an egotistical demand list, quite frankly. It doesn't sound very friendly at all, but she does look stunning. And she tours with women who are low key porn stars, and they charge ridiculous hourly rates and have enhanced boobs, and don't look nearly as attractive as her anyway. But it's a common theme. Say anything to break their all too delicate skin, and you'll be meeting the block party. It's very common and cut-throat of them to hit their red button so quickly, so don't expect to be giving a second chance. :(

I was talking to a girl on WhatsApp a few years ago, and she blocked me too. I wasn't too chuffed about that. Then she found me on another forum, and called me names. She emailed me because she found out my real name and address. You can see some really dodgy videos of her doing things I best not describe here, but I try not to judge them too harshly. And I didn't even know it was her at first, although I think it's all because some moron in Australia was spamming it on a forum that's no longer moderated, and that jackass has been such a thorn in my side, that I recently consulted with a lawyer in Western Australia - only to be told he requires a $30,000 fee upfront. I'd explained how this guy has been bothering me online for years, and the solicitor said they can still accept clients who are from overseas.

So she basically got sarcastic and said she has a torture room in her mansion in Scotland, or something, where we could shoot a movie with me "being the star of the show." I thought she was being a drama llama over nothing. So in response, I said she probably made men vanish. This was intended as counter sarcasm. I cannot quite remember how I worded everything. Then she got a lawyer just because I said that, making out I defamed her. I honestly had to laugh at how stupid the whole situation was, although it came as no surprise. I had to do a video link to a court, which I filmed, and all they did was butt in and barely listen to anything I said. But the bottom line is, they identify as sadists. So I mean, why bother thinking they're going to be in any way calm and civil, right? She even has a post on Twitter about wanting a shrine built in her honour when she dies. What the hell? :D

Apart from herself, there's all manner of women creating accounts on Twitter these days, purposefully posting saying sexist comments about guys, and thinking they're on a pedestal. But if you're a guy and you say something about women, they moan about it, and you never hear the end of their ranting. So how about taken their own sour tasting medicine for a change?

I went to a dungeon years ago, to meet a Spanish woman who was there temporarily. I only seen her twice. The next thing I know, I'm being slandered by somebody else on Twitter, who I never met. She looks like a Margot Robbie wannabe, with a bit of a dumb blonde and Catwoman look thrown in for good measure. Well, she was doing it along with the mistress who runs that joint, and now all of these women who coincidentally know her are doing it as well. But I've never said anything out of line to any of these ladies, so why they prefer to act so mollycoddled, I don't know.

They demand money, reimbursements, gifts, or whatever, and say you're a loser and stuff, while talking about how godly they are. So I really don't get why anybody would be daft enough to follow them, knowing they don't even value you as a person. They're ruthless and without a good bone in their body. Maybe not all of them are like this. You really do have to discard a lot of chaff husks to find any golden wheat, so to speak. But I was told though that if they do not offer aftercare following a BDSM session, then they're not a true dominatrix, which I don't think most of them are. And I'm not a woman hater. I just think technology has gone to their heads. It's only gonna get worse if people fall for this, and I'd consider it an embarrassment to be in their company.

At the end of the day, something that's supposed to relieve sexual tension for a socially dense autistic man such as myself, is essentially just grinding my gears, and it's feeling like a pointless side hobby now. But it's not like they will give a damn if they never spoke to your ass again. There's literally millions of loners out there that chase after their sad gimmick, and they know it too. So maybe it's time to call it quits.


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What's your opinion on her?

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I tried to book her in November. She was awfully arrogant, to be honest.

If she doesn't see clients without a reference, she ought to update her respective platforms to state as such. :(

 

nush

Gold Member
She was awfully arrogant, to be honest.

It's amazing the levels of delusion some (Usually from the hottest workers) have that they are better actually than the job they are doing. Always go for the B/C level looks women, they have a better chance of being more grounded.

Bitch, you ain't too good for any man that walks through the door with a hard-on in one pocket and $100 in the other.
 
I mean it sounds like you’re getting too bent out of shape about these girls personalities - who cares if they think they’re hot shit? They are providing a service - either go for it or don’t but don’t get your feeling all twisted up about it.

Also it sounds like you do a lot of dominatrix stuff so I assume those types can be a little meaner to you because that’s their job? I dunno
 

Winter John

Gold Member
Buddy, I’m going to tell you where you’re going wrong whether you know it or not. A whore is a whore. A lot of guys in your situation have forgotten that one simple rule. They start thinking maybe they found the exception. Start convincing themselves that maybe they found the mystical whore with the heart of gold who actually cares about them. You ain’t the first to fall in that trap and you won’t be the last. A whore is a whore. They will tell you exactly what you want to hear. Don’t be ashamed about it. You got suckered. So did a million other guys.
If you want to find a real relationship then stop using escort services. Go to bars. Go to clubs. First things first though. You gotta start believing in yourself cos if you don’t how can you expect anybody else to believe in you.
 
Like STDs and a monetary reminder that one is a loser?
Nah like: zero effort involved, only need to worry about your pleasure, less time commitment, you know what you’re getting no drama, no emotional baggage or hurt feelings involved, can leave right after and they won’t get offended/stalk you/bad mouth you - transactional sex definitely has its perks if you don’t wanna deal with the bullshit, you’re just paying for a service that’s it.
 
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TheInfamousKira

Reseterror Resettler
So what’s the relation between account suicide and gold?

You see, It's a like a graph. You'll find the higher the level of loathing, cursing, and posting in their suicide thread, the higher the chances You'll randomly get gilded for posting some dumb shit.

If someone gives the OP gold, chances go up.

If the OP is given gold THEN banned, holy fuck dawgs, get a lottery ticket.
 

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All these years later I still chuckle at what a fucking moron that guy is.
Nah like: zero effort involved, only need to worry about your pleasure, less time commitment, you know what you’re getting no drama, no emotional baggage or hurt feelings involved, can leave right after and they won’t get offended/stalk you/bad mouth you - transactional sex definitely has its perks if you don’t wanna deal with the bullshit, you’re just paying for a service that’s it.
This is not the counterargument that you think it is.
 

Days like these...

Have a Blessed Day
Nah like: zero effort involved, only need to worry about your pleasure, no emotional baggage or hurt feelings involved, can leave right after and they won’t get offended/stalk you/bad mouth you - transactional sex definitely has its perks if you don’t wanna deal with the bullshit, you’re just paying for a service that’s it.
Lol, you can't have sex without emotional baggage, hurt feelings or minimal effort?
 
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GHG

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Lol, you can't have sex without emotional baggage, hurt feelings or minimal effort?

I've never had a situation where fuckbuddies doesn't end in tears.

If it goes on for long enough one of the two parties will catch feelings. Been on both sides of the coin, it happens.

Not for me, but I completely get why some people choose to remove that risk and potential aggravation from the situation, especially if they have other commitments.
 
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Trunx81

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Op, just fly to London and go into Club Pedestal.

I once wanted to try out a mistress in my hometown as well, just for the kink (went through a rough separation from my ex). Wrote her a very humble mail, already full in the mood. Her reply was just awful generic that it threw me off. If you want to play the game, do it from the beginning. Never went to see her, never tried the “dungeon thing”.

But yeah, this Findom thing is really getting out of hand. Any girl that has some tattoos suddenly tries to get into her Simps wallets. And don’t get me started about the sissy or caging stuff - the demand for these fetishes seem to be really high.
 
Lol, you can't have sex without emotional baggage, hurt feelings or minimal effort?
I mean I can sure but it’s a roll of the dice - super rare even with one night stands to not have something come up - most don’t love if you don’t stay over, most wanna talk and have conversations and not solely have sex and then be out. Even still in that scenario they want something out of it for them. As they should of course. You gotta be aware of what they’re okay with and not, where their boundaries are. Sex workers you know what ur getting
 
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Trunx81

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I mean I can sure but it’s a roll of the dice - super rare even with one night stands to not have something come up - most don’t love if you don’t stay over, most wanna talk and have conversations and not solely have sex and then be out. Even still in that scenario they want something out of it for them. As they should of course. You gotta be aware of what they’re okay with and not, where their boundaries are. Sex workers you know what ur getting
Conversations are the biggest part, I think. Most men just feel lonely. I once went with my boss into a brothel, he payed. It was a “20 minute in and out” session. Worst sex ever. When I came out, my boss also left his room. We went looking for our married colleague, but his hooker told us that he finished early and took a cab and went home. Man, the media business really was (is) fucked up. I’ve seen things ..
 

BadBurger

Is 'That Pure Potato'
Um.

I am not judging anyone, but all a guy has to do is stay reasonably in shape, have a good job with a decent amount of disposable income, and not be a creep, and women 25+ will gladly date and fuck you. You don't have to pay for it. That's fucking odd desperation shit.
 

Tams

Member
OP, you're off your rocker!

Edit: Sir, this is a gaming forum.

You honestly come across as a creep and far too obsessive over these women. Yes, they're selling themselves and are hardly paragons of virtue, but that doesn't mean you should get all creepy.


There's enjoying something and then there's getting too sucked into it. You're in too deep, so just cut the whole lot off. Delete all your accounts on those websites and get off Twitter. If you're horny, just have a fucking wank. And then find a new hobby that has less poisonous people in.

And if the way you write here and going off what you wrote... it's no wonder women are put off by you.

I'm not saying there aren't some absolutely horrible, selfish bitches out there, who will use you or turn on you. There absolutely are, far too many even. But they are still a minority.
 
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Hugare

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I'll never understand paying for sex.

To me, part of the fun is catching the fish. If there's no honesty in how attracted the woman is for me, I feel no pleasure on the sex.
After breaking up with my ex I tried many Tinder dates that were just meeting for sex, and I didnt even get an erection.

Seems like you want affection. If you are hiring hookers for that, look elsewhere.
 

Tams

Member
Oh, and if you really must, just go to a Thai or Chinese massage parlour.

You can seek out ones with happy endings, but really just go for a nice massage and if you get extras... well that's your call.

Just don't be a fucking creep.
 
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