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SlimySnake

Flashless at the Golden Globes
OP seems to be on the spectrum by their own admission so they probably doesnt realize they are coming off as a creep, stalkerish and completely obsessed.

If you are struggling to get hookers to sleep with you. If you cant even pay for sex then its best that you spend that money on therapy where a professional can help you guide through your social barriers.

Nothing wrong with paying for sex if you are single, but if they are turning you down then you are doing something wrong. their job is to take your money and fuck you. they will literally fuck anyone. if they are rejecting you the problem is you.
 

chromhound

Member
You need to get laid....

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Conversations are the biggest part, I think. Most men just feel lonely. I once went with my boss into a brothel, he payed. It was a “20 minute in and out” session. Worst sex ever. When I came out, my boss also left his room. We went looking for our married colleague, but his hooker told us that he finished early and took a cab and went home. Man, the media business really was (is) fucked up. I’ve seen things ..
Do tell!
 

Kamina

Golden Boy
Seems like you are looking for the wrong types of women. Those who prance on twitter are likely self centered narcissists.
I am certain the milieu offers girls that are more down to earth.
 

HAYA8U5A

Member
Well since everybody else seems to be skipping over the important details I guess I will be the sacrificial lamb..... going to need more info on this dungeon with somebody that looks like a Margot Robbie wannabe
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Fools idol

Banned
Today I realised what a sheltered life I must live.

I found out escorting/prostitution is legal in the UK.

A website called ukpunting where people rate the lays they've paid for.

I just couldn't imagine paying someone who clearly doesn't want to sleep with you for money to fund their habit/or lavish life style.

It just seems genuinely really sad for everyone involved.

you should try being rich. I've had random hoes at gas stations pretend they find me attractive just so they can have a ride in my car / sleep with me to have a chance at securing the bag.

The society of current times below the age of like 25 is absolutely shamelessly obsessed with money, status, and throwing it all on social media. It's truly sad indeed. I can't remember the last time I had a meaningful relationship or sexual encounter that didn't feel like the woman just wanted to level her life up gratuitously. They basically look through me to have a picture with my stuff and then share it on socials even though I have asked for them not to before. Some I have had dates with seemed genuine until they found out I have money and then it all goes to shit from there.

I spent a night in a hotel in manchester a few weeks back and one of the waitresses who was like 20 or so and very clearly had a boyfriend completely switched up when she saw I was staying in the expensive room and had valet parking etc and I have to admit I felt physically ill at the thought of yet another night of fake sex and interaction with another gen Z bot.
 
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Patrick S.

Banned
you should try being rich. I've had random hoes at gas stations pretend they find me attractive just so they can have a ride in my car / sleep with me to have a chance at securing the bag.

The society of current times below the age of like 25 is absolutely shamelessly obsessed with money, status, and throwing it all on social media. It's truly sad indeed. I can't remember the last time I had a meaningful relationship or sexual encounter that didn't feel like the woman just wanted to level her life up gratuitously. They basically look through me to have a picture with my stuff and then share it on socials even though I have asked for them not to before. Some I have had dates with seemed genuine until they found out I have money and then it all goes to shit from there.
Your username makes sense, then :messenger_grinning_sweat:
 

anthony2690

Banned
you should try being rich. I've had random hoes at gas stations pretend they find me attractive just so they can have a ride in my car / sleep with me to have a chance at securing the bag.

The society of current times below the age of like 25 is absolutely shamelessly obsessed with money, status, and throwing it all on social media. It's truly sad indeed. I can't remember the last time I had a meaningful relationship or sexual encounter that didn't feel like the woman just wanted to level her life up gratuitously. They basically look through me to have a picture with my stuff and then share it on socials even though I have asked for them not to before. Some I have had dates with seemed genuine until they found out I have money and then it all goes to shit from there.

I spent a night in a hotel in manchester a few weeks back and one of the waitresses who was like 20 or so and very clearly had a boyfriend completely switched up when she saw I was staying in the expensive room and had valet parking etc and I have to admit I felt physically ill at the thought of yet another night of fake sex and interaction with another gen Z bot.
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Awh man, I can imagine it can be a little crappy when you're successful you have to wonder if the people you are around want to be around you for you, or what you have.

I also think it is incredibly sad that people will sleep with someone over materialistic stuff.

Maybe it might be worth meeting someone and waiting for sex, so you know they are not after you for your money and willing to throw away their dignity for your wealth.
 

Fools idol

Banned
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Awh man, I can imagine it can be a little crappy when you're successful you have to wonder if the people you are around want to be around you for you, or what you have.

I also think it is incredibly sad that people will sleep with someone over materialistic stuff.

Maybe it might be worth meeting someone and waiting for sex, so you know they are not after you for your money and willing to throw away their dignity for your wealth.

I wasn't posting it to be like all woe is me cause obviously having hot girls that wouldnt look at me twice as a 20 year old developer nerd who had the social skills of a pencil suddenly want a piece cause it does make you feel good at first but reality sets in very quickly when you see through the veil.

I know there are far shittier problems to have, but it does get to you after a while. I have only recently been 'off the market' by choice, I just want a break from the same old. I think I will eventually get back together with the mother of my daughter cause she is the only one I knew when I was poor and she was by my side through it all. She just couldnt handle the stresses or business and parent life as her mental health issues would be magnified to the point of us arguing all the time. She knows I slept around a fair bit after we broke up but she still calls and I know it will be on at some point. I'm just enjoying my alone time.
 
Today I realised what a sheltered life I must live.

I found out escorting/prostitution is legal in the UK.

A website called ukpunting where people rate the lays they've paid for.

I just couldn't imagine paying someone who clearly doesn't want to sleep with you for money to fund their habit/or lavish life style.

It just seems genuinely really sad for everyone involved.

Lots of lonely people in the world eh.
 

anthony2690

Banned
I wasn't posting it to be like all woe is me cause obviously having hot girls that wouldnt look at me twice as a 20 year old developer nerd who had the social skills of a pencil suddenly want a piece cause it does make you feel good at first but reality sets in very quickly when you see through the veil.

I know there are far shittier problems to have, but it does get to you after a while. I have only recently been 'off the market' by choice, I just want a break from the same old. I think I will eventually get back together with the mother of my daughter cause she is the only one I knew when I was poor and she was by my side through it all. She just couldnt handle the stresses or business and parent life as her mental health issues would be magnified to the point of us arguing all the time. She knows I slept around a fair bit after we broke up but she still calls and I know it will be on at some point. I'm just enjoying my alone time.
Well whatever you end up doing man, I hope it brings you genuine happiness :) ❤️
 

RJMacready73

Simps for Amouranth
Op trying to land big fishes with a small rod, you're looking in the wrong pond my son & stop chasing OF/Pornstars ffs from your own admission you don't have the personality to land em, keep it local.. that's all my fishing puns used up
 

OZ9000

Banned
I go on escort sites a lot since I'm single, and with how you get spoken to by these women online, it honestly makes me half glad to be single. Talk about having a narky aura about them.

Basically, most of the profiles on there I think are gallery scams. The members keep changing location. The same can be said about Fetlife as well. When you send them messages, you feel like you have to not step on anyone's toes for fear of being blocked, slandered, spoken to like rubbish, and whatnot. I understand that they in all fairness, likely get a lot of people mucking them about, or they may be doing "the job" to make ends meet, so I have a shred of sympathy for their situation. Their safety is paramount. But I think it's a two way street, to be honest.

I had somebody on my radar for a while, and she was touring in Edinburgh during the fall. So I signed up to her OnlyFans. Despite the fact you're paying for a subscription for to simp for them and gawk at their boring wank fodder, half the videos and pictures are still locked behind paywalls, and there's nothing that really stands out either. Then I attempted to book her on the appropriate site, and I gathered she must think the sun shines out of her arse. She said she doesn't see anyone without feedback, yet her profile completely omits that fact. It's more like an egotistical demand list, quite frankly. It doesn't sound very friendly at all, but she does look stunning. And she tours with women who are low key porn stars, and they charge ridiculous hourly rates and have enhanced boobs, and don't look nearly as attractive as her anyway. But it's a common theme. Say anything to break their all too delicate skin, and you'll be meeting the block party. It's very common and cut-throat of them to hit their red button so quickly, so don't expect to be giving a second chance. :(

I was talking to a girl on WhatsApp a few years ago, and she blocked me too. I wasn't too chuffed about that. Then she found me on another forum, and called me names. She emailed me because she found out my real name and address. You can see some really dodgy videos of her doing things I best not describe here, but I try not to judge them too harshly. And I didn't even know it was her at first, although I think it's all because some moron in Australia was spamming it on a forum that's no longer moderated, and that jackass has been such a thorn in my side, that I recently consulted with a lawyer in Western Australia - only to be told he requires a $30,000 fee upfront. I'd explained how this guy has been bothering me online for years, and the solicitor said they can still accept clients who are from overseas.

So she basically got sarcastic and said she has a torture room in her mansion in Scotland, or something, where we could shoot a movie with me "being the star of the show." I thought she was being a drama llama over nothing. So in response, I said she probably made men vanish. This was intended as counter sarcasm. I cannot quite remember how I worded everything. Then she got a lawyer just because I said that, making out I defamed her. I honestly had to laugh at how stupid the whole situation was, although it came as no surprise. I had to do a video link to a court, which I filmed, and all they did was butt in and barely listen to anything I said. But the bottom line is, they identify as sadists. So I mean, why bother thinking they're going to be in any way calm and civil, right? She even has a post on Twitter about wanting a shrine built in her honour when she dies. What the hell? :D

Apart from herself, there's all manner of women creating accounts on Twitter these days, purposefully posting saying sexist comments about guys, and thinking they're on a pedestal. But if you're a guy and you say something about women, they moan about it, and you never hear the end of their ranting. So how about taken their own sour tasting medicine for a change?

I went to a dungeon years ago, to meet a Spanish woman who was there temporarily. I only seen her twice. The next thing I know, I'm being slandered by somebody else on Twitter, who I never met. She looks like a Margot Robbie wannabe, with a bit of a dumb blonde and Catwoman look thrown in for good measure. Well, she was doing it along with the mistress who runs that joint, and now all of these women who coincidentally know her are doing it as well. But I've never said anything out of line to any of these ladies, so why they prefer to act so mollycoddled, I don't know.

They demand money, reimbursements, gifts, or whatever, and say you're a loser and stuff, while talking about how godly they are. So I really don't get why anybody would be daft enough to follow them, knowing they don't even value you as a person. They're ruthless and without a good bone in their body. Maybe not all of them are like this. You really do have to discard a lot of chaff husks to find any golden wheat, so to speak. But I was told though that if they do not offer aftercare following a BDSM session, then they're not a true dominatrix, which I don't think most of them are. And I'm not a woman hater. I just think technology has gone to their heads. It's only gonna get worse if people fall for this, and I'd consider it an embarrassment to be in their company.

At the end of the day, something that's supposed to relieve sexual tension for a socially dense autistic man such as myself, is essentially just grinding my gears, and it's feeling like a pointless side hobby now. But it's not like they will give a damn if they never spoke to your ass again. There's literally millions of loners out there that chase after their sad gimmick, and they know it too. So maybe it's time to call it quits.
There is no greater loss on this planet than having to pay for sexual services. My condolences.
 

Kenpachii

Member
you should try being rich. I've had random hoes at gas stations pretend they find me attractive just so they can have a ride in my car / sleep with me to have a chance at securing the bag.

The society of current times below the age of like 25 is absolutely shamelessly obsessed with money, status, and throwing it all on social media. It's truly sad indeed. I can't remember the last time I had a meaningful relationship or sexual encounter that didn't feel like the woman just wanted to level her life up gratuitously. They basically look through me to have a picture with my stuff and then share it on socials even though I have asked for them not to before. Some I have had dates with seemed genuine until they found out I have money and then it all goes to shit from there.

I spent a night in a hotel in manchester a few weeks back and one of the waitresses who was like 20 or so and very clearly had a boyfriend completely switched up when she saw I was staying in the expensive room and had valet parking etc and I have to admit I felt physically ill at the thought of yet another night of fake sex and interaction with another gen Z bot.

Most people are poor mate. They will do whatever they can for money. It's there life focus.

If you flounder money out of your asshole, u will attract woman that search for that. If you don't flounder money u will attract most likely nothing so u keep doing it and keep complaining about it.

If you want to find woman that are not after your money, stop projecting u have a lot of money and start dressing / driving something low end cheapish and act simplistic. Instead of going to star restaurants, expensive trips, just drink something on a terras and eat at yours or her place or some cheap restaurant and do some boring as shit forest walk, or some cheap place that costs barely anything.

Most normal woman are also not something u probably get attracted by, because they probably dress normal, are not "photo model / porn hot" but normal. So yea.

A good way to find woman in general that are hidden single and normal, is basically asking through friends if they know somebody or do charity work. Most of my "richer' buddy's got a girl out of charity work. U atleast know that person doesn't give 2 fucks about money.
 
Most people are poor mate. They will do whatever they can for money. It's there life focus.

If you flounder money out of your asshole, u will attract woman that search for that. If you don't flounder money u will attract most likely nothing so u keep doing it and keep complaining about it.

If you want to find woman that are not after your money, stop projecting u have a lot of money and start dressing / driving something low end cheapish and act simplistic. Instead of going to star restaurants, expensive trips, just drink something on a terras and eat at yours or her place or some cheap restaurant and do some boring as shit forest walk, or some cheap place that costs barely anything.

Most normal woman are also not something u probably get attracted by, because they probably dress normal, are not "photo model / porn hot" but normal. So yea.

A good way to find woman in general that are hidden single and normal, is basically asking through friends if they know somebody or do charity work. Most of my "richer' buddy's got a girl out of charity work. U atleast know that person doesn't give 2 fucks about money.

Yup. Don't chase after the 8s or 9s if you're not one yourself. Money isn't going to make up for you being a boring loser. I have the looks and social skills to at least get the ball rolling but that's it.

When i'm ready to settle I sure as hell ain't contacting any of them.
 

RJMacready73

Simps for Amouranth
you should try being rich. I've had random hoes at gas stations pretend they find me attractive just so they can have a ride in my car / sleep with me to have a chance at securing the bag.

The society of current times below the age of like 25 is absolutely shamelessly obsessed with money, status, and throwing it all on social media. It's truly sad indeed. I can't remember the last time I had a meaningful relationship or sexual encounter that didn't feel like the woman just wanted to level her life up gratuitously. They basically look through me to have a picture with my stuff and then share it on socials even though I have asked for them not to before. Some I have had dates with seemed genuine until they found out I have money and then it all goes to shit from there.

I spent a night in a hotel in manchester a few weeks back and one of the waitresses who was like 20 or so and very clearly had a boyfriend completely switched up when she saw I was staying in the expensive room and had valet parking etc and I have to admit I felt physically ill at the thought of yet another night of fake sex and interaction with another gen Z bot.
Fuck me you younger generation whining women throwing themselves at you for sex and also being rich... Mate I can't find a violin small enough to play for you
 

Fools idol

Banned
Fuck me you younger generation whining women throwing themselves at you for sex and also being rich... Mate I can't find a violin small enough to play for you

my guy, sex is just sex. I want a long term relationship again with someone that actually has a personality. Finding that in the cesspit that is modern dating is so hard, I can't even begin to tell you if you haven't experienced that shit. It's hell on earth unless you just want one night stands with sociopaths.
 
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thefool

Member
Incredible OP, really.

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Where are you from? Im not super well versed on the escort-business but don't you have normal regular escorts that you can simply book? Go to hotel, fake laugh together, have awkard sex and leave after.
Avoid people with online-personas (hookers included).
 
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RJMacready73

Simps for Amouranth
my guy, sex is just sex. I want a long term relationship again with someone that actually has a personality. Finding that in the cesspit that is modern dating is so hard, I can't even begin to tell you if you haven't experienced that shit. It's hell on earth unless you just want one night stands with sociopaths.
Surely if you are wealthy and successful it would be easier to meet other similar successful women, I'm sure there's a lot of wealthy women out there in the same boat but then again I've been outa the market for years, when I was single between marriages all I wanted was to have fun and every woman I met wanted to settle lol and the one I finally met that I wanted to settle with she wanted to keep it casual... Finally ground her down and she got her revenge by giving me 2 kids... I don't envy you or others in the datin game tbh, does sound like hell nowadays
 

Trunx81

Member
I used to work many years in television. Came from a small town and only new fornication takes from shows like Californication. It started with the first Christmas party, when a colleague warned me not to get too much drunk, as it was a habit of some male colleagues to take advantage of drunk people. Male and female.

Then I realized that some tv hosts, married or not, were always after younger colleagues. Even the ceo of the company, also married, fucked around like crazy.

When I took a media job in another country, which included me flying around the world, it showed that this behavior was common everywhere. Drugs were a thing, especially the Colombian stuff. And you always had to watch your back, literally.
 
Yeah. I am not going to worry about women anymore. When confronted for being smarmy tarts, they just block me anyway.

What I will do is sign up for a gym membership and start working out, as I'm getting a bit of a tummy on me. It's also a good way to burn off that adrenaline, as this stress hormone really increases the physical symptoms of anxiety. And having anxiety sucks.

There's also no way things are just going to fall into your lap either. My sister said you have to make things happen. So I want 2023 to be a great year. I'm also about to turn 37. Only 11 more days to go. :D
 

TheInfamousKira

Reseterror Resettler
Yeah. I am not going to worry about women anymore. When confronted for being smarmy tarts, they just block me anyway.

What I will do is sign up for a gym membership and start working out, as I'm getting a bit of a tummy on me. It's also a good way to burn off that adrenaline, as this stress hormone really increases the physical symptoms of anxiety. And having anxiety sucks.

There's also no way things are just going to fall into your lap either. My sister said you have to make things happen. So I want 2023 to be a great year. I'm also about to turn 37. Only 11 more days to go. :D

Good conclusion to come to in my opinion, my dude. I was roasting a bit in this thread but it's all in good fun. Anxiety in a bitch, I've dealt with it for half my life give or take. I'm not a love guru, but here's my take: you're right, it won't fall in your lap, but also, don't make it your SOLE goal going forward. Don't wrap up all your energy, success, and tasks for the future into that idea. Sure, let that motivate you, but keep it on low on the back burner. Tl;dr: women can smell desperation and a single minded focus from a mile away. It's like a pheromone you put off. So for sure, work on you, and you'll find that as the quality of your life goes up, so, too do the quality of the people you're surrounded by (generally speaking) Good luck, brother.
 
I just want to settle down.

I hope that's not too much to ask of a woman. :(
1. Bro, you are not going to get a decent woman to "settle down" on Onlyfans/ sex worker websites. They are there for your money, and that's all they care about. This negative feedback loop is destroying your mental health and self-worth.

2. I suggest booking an appointment with a licensed therapist. There are therapy modalities for autistic people that focus on communication, behavior, and emotional intelligence. I think it could help you build better interpersonal relationships.

3. I recommend stop looking for escorts and focusing on building back your self-worth and meeting women in person when you feel ready.


I hope this response helps you.
 
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