- Jan 13, 2018
True, but he's also saying that for most people inexperienced with dating - the lack of confidence is all in their head for the most part. For a lot of people, if they get in a decent relationship it can be the thing that helps fix some of their anxiety and worries. He's probably completely fine, and if he meets the right girl, that will likely be enough to give him that little boost. Of course people can work on bettering themselves as you suggested, and it's good advice - but there's no substitute for having a little good luck sometimes.Having confidence in real life and on the internet are 2 totally different things for a lot of people , the persona you portray anonymous online can vary greatly from person to person.