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I was asked to call a man Daddy during sex and it really turned me off

DeepEnigma

Gold Member
There’s a super gross term going around at the moment but it’s really getting some women horny.

I’m seeing it all over my Instagram pages and recently a bloke tried to get me to use it in the bedroom, which was a total lady boner deflator.

It’s the word ‘daddy’ and I’m not a fan.

We were fooling around like lusty teenagers, and he looked me deep in the eyes and goes: “Call me Daddy”.

The slightly repulsed look on my face made him give an awkward laugh and say: “I’m just joking!” But he wasn’t dear reader, he wasn’t.

A picture of Jana Hocking.Columnist Jana Hocking says the term “daddy” is gross but gets some women horny.jana_hocking/Instagram

Now listen, no judgment here because we’ve all got our slightly random kinks, but personally I just couldn’t get my head around it.

The last time I called someone Daddy was when I was roughly three years old and it was to my literal father.

That term belongs nowhere near the bedroom.

To me, it is the definition of ick.

A picture of a couple in bed.The writer said a man tried to get me to use the term in the bedroom, which then turned her off.Getty Images/iStockphoto

It’s right up there with grown women who talk to their partners in baby talk. Seriously, is there anything grosser than sitting next to a couple who are like: “Does my little muffin want a kiss,” “Yes your little muffin does want a kiss.” You’re gagging now as you read this aren’t you … I am.

But wait.

There’s now been a further expansion on the word: You can now either be a plain oil’ “Daddy” or a “Zaddy” which according to the Webster dictionary, is classified as an older ‘Daddy’ who is attractive, has extra swag, and deemed good fashion sense.

Honestly, I can barely keep up! So basically Harry Styles would be classified as a Daddy, and George Clooney a “Zaddy”.

So why is everyone going ga ga for it?

One of the highest-rating podcasts on Spotify right now is called Call her Daddy and don’t get me wrong, it’s an absolute banger of a podcast – but the title is designed to be sexy, because, as you can imagine the fabulous female who hosts it, Alexandra Cooper, talks a lot about sex (marvelous!).

She even calls her listeners “Daddy gang.”

Now as a listener, I want no part in this “Daddy gang” but do you know what … many women do! So I decided to investigate further.

I started with the guys.

One guy friend revealed that if a woman called him “Daddy” he would run for the hills because she clearly had some form of ‘daddy issues’.

Young beautiful hot couple in love hugging and kissing. “That term belongs nowhere near the bedroom,” the columnist says.Getty Images/iStockphoto

His friends agreed.

So then I took it to my girlfriends for their opinion. I asked one particular friend if it was perhaps a creepy Freudian daddy issues thing and she laughed and said absolutely not.

She said the term ‘Daddy’ indicates masculine energy, and dominance, and gave her man the idea that he was in charge in the bedroom.

OK, OK I’m beginning to understand, and yes, that description sounds pretty darn sexy to me, but I fear it will carry out outside of the bedroom.

A picture of Jana Hocking.
Jana Hockings compares “call me daddy” to grown women who talk to their partners in baby talk.jana_hocking/Instagram

If we stroke a bloke’s ego between the sheets, will he start thinking he can dominate us in the real world as well?

Or am I really overthinking it? I mean, I like a bit of bedroom rough-and-tumble play but I’m certainly not putting up with it in the office.

I decided the final place I need to go for answers was the trusty Reddit forums – they are filled with gloriously unfiltered opinions from all walks of life.

Close up naked loving couple in bed having fun together. Jana Hocking’s friend said the term ‘Daddy’ indicates masculine energy and gave her man the idea that he was in charge in the bedroom.Getty Images/iStockphoto

Most people there seemed to agree that the term Daddy was mostly used by women who like to be submissive in their relationships.

Cool – I get it, but does it have to be THAT word? Can’t we call them something like “boss” or “tiger” or heck, I don’t know … perhaps “Captain” is just anything that is far removed from an actual family member. Gross, gross, gross.

Now listen, if I was absolutely pushed to call a bloke by that name, I’m going to be honest, there are only three men in this whole darn world I would call “Daddy” and they are Brett Goldstein (aka Roy from Ted Lasso), Brad Pitt (circa. Legend of the Falls era) and Michael B Jordan.
 

Maiden Voyage

Gold™ Member
You promised you wouldn't tell anyone!

Ok but what if someone calls her “mommy” during sex?
erection GIF
 
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Yeah, it weirds me out. Especially being in your early/mid 40s crushing ass of girls in their early/mid 20s.

Cause then the brain does the math.

It does this math!
For real I’m in my late 20s and the girls who called me that were early-mid 20s. Like what…they claimed it showed affection/was normal
 
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DeepEnigma

Gold Member
For real I’m in my late 20s and the girls who called me that were low-mid 20s. Like what…
Yeah, that's weird. I always cringe when I see teens calling their teen boyfriends that. Like, WTF? HOW?

His balls haven't even dropped yet, sweetheart.
 
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IDKFA

I am Become Bilbo Baggins
I like it when my wife calls me King. Really gets me going when she screams "KING" in my face with a dead eye stare.

However, "daddy" is really odd. You'd have to be a bit odd for wanting your other half to call you daddy. Lol. Some people.
 

daveonezero

Banned
Yeah I mean is this just a girl writing about her hookups?

Does she expect a one night stand to understand her or treat her like a porn star?
 
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anthony2690

Banned
How do people stay alive, in this condition?
I genuinely don't know, whilst googling to mess around with a user.

You see some that claim they are happy and want to become bigger as they make a good living.

But then you see others that seem genuinely really unhappy and one dude needed lifting out via a crane :/

It's really sad and I can imagine it's a life of discomfort.

I am a big dude, but these people are absolutely MASSIVE, their legs alone probably weigh more than me, definitely good motivation to shift the weight along with the health benefits :)
 
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Thirty7ven

Banned
Personally I love how some women try to shine it up by saying that calling a man daddy doesn’t mean what you think, or that baby talk is completely normal.

Uh no. It means exactly what it means, that’s why you picked those words and that’s why you say those words the way you say them.
 

RJMacready73

Simps for Amouranth
Me and the wife call each other mummy and daddy all the time, granted not in the sack mind, but I had an ex who had actual daddy issues and liked to call me daddy in the sack, fuck do I care, she can call me Mr Alfonzo the Magnificent as long as I'm getting it, y'all need to lose your hangups and go with whatever the chick wants, if she's happy and it turns her on then it's a brucey bonus in my playbook
 

DeepEnigma

Gold Member
Me and the wife call each other mummy and daddy all the time, granted not in the sack mind, but I had an ex who had actual daddy issues and liked to call me daddy in the sack, fuck do I care, she can call me Mr Alfonzo the Magnificent as long as I'm getting it, y'all need to lose your hangups and go with whatever the chick wants, if she's happy and it turns her on then it's a brucey bonus in my playbook
that is true stephen colbert GIF by Obama
 

BlackTron

Member
To me, it is the definition of ick.
She said the term ‘Daddy’ indicates masculine energy, and dominance, and gave her man the idea that he was in charge in the bedroom.

To HER, it is the definition of ick. Wait -masculine energy, dominance, being in charge? News flash girl. Women have been into all of the above for centuries. This is so common that you're practically the outlier not being into it. The guy probably asked you to say it because the last ten woman did and he was just encouraging the process.

I personally don't like being called daddy, it weirds me out a bit, but I just tolerate it because I understand the mechanics behind it. The woman wants you to take that dominant position and it's a verbal symbol of that. Fighting it would just be an unnecessary turn-off for her. As far as weird kinks to have to put up with, there are FAR worse.
 
But what about all the Spanish ladies down here in Florida? Every Cuban and Colombian chick I had sex with would just call me "Papi" both during and not during sex. During sex normally the would say "Si Papi, me gusta" which means "Yes daddy I like" I never had to ask or anything, they would just say it because I guess it's a cultural thing for Spanish women? Either way, it's hot as fuck and best part is I don't have to say shit and it turns them on regardless.

Shit woke article that was probably written by a virgin or someone who really sucks at being good at fucking.
 
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