I find people's behavior when allowed to act anonymously enormously telling: it reveals how you behave when you can "get away with it."
Reminds me of the quote by C.S. Lewis.
"Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is looking."
I find people's behavior when allowed to act anonymously enormously telling: it reveals how you behave when you can "get away with it."
I feel that real kindness -- that is, what makes a person genuinely nice -- is an act done with no real expectation of compensation in return. Most friendships do not work like this: paying for your friend's gas now may help down the line when he does the same for you. Not cheating on your girlfriend makes it much less likely that she will cheat on you (is it even "cheating" at that point?) Being cruel to your mother and father jeopardizes the possibility for assistance or shelter if you should ever need it, and can also threaten any inheritance if there it exists.
Most friendships and family relationships have implicit social contracts which provide strong incentive to continue to be nice. Being nice to strangers who you never expect to return the favor is far more telling than how you treat those you believe may eventually repay you.
I find people's behavior when allowed to act anonymously enormously telling: it reveals how you behave when you can "get away with it."
It is apparent that many people only respect and are considerate of others because they are afraid of being either jailed (if there is illegal activity) or cast out of their social circles (for being a jerk).
I feel that real kindness -- that is, what makes a person genuinely nice -- is an act done with no real expectation of compensation in return. Most friendships do not work like this: paying for your friend's gas now may help down the line when he does the same for you. Not cheating on your girlfriend makes it much less likely that she will cheat on you (is it even "cheating" at that point?) Being cruel to your mother and father jeopardizes the possibility for assistance or shelter if you should ever need it, and can also threaten any inheritance if there it exists.
Most friendships and family relationships have implicit social contracts which provide strong incentive to continue to be nice. Being nice to strangers who you never expect to return the favor is far more telling than how you treat those you believe may eventually repay you.
I've seen this all the time. Everyone has a good laugh at candid photos of the unattractive, overweight, oddly dressed, homeless, or any person who looks different or strange in any way. But attractive girls are the one contradiction and exception to the rule?
Reminds me of the quote by C.S. Lewis.
"Integrity is doing the right thing when no one is looking."
Ah, I thought it was you, CD. Shame it's only in Quebec, but maybe it'd still work here in some form or another.
So true. Look at People of Walmart, or Jorts.com for example.
Fucking disgusting how hot chicks think they're something special.
How is r/jailbait even legal?
I'm assuming that they are posting pictures of underage people, or am I completely wrong?
How is r/jailbait even legal?
I'm assuming that they are posting pictures of underage people, or am I completely wrong?
it's banned now, so we'll never know...
Atleast we still have r/beach, r/exgirlfriendpictures and r/publicupskirt
How is r/jailbait even legal?
I'm assuming that they are posting pictures of underage people, or am I completely wrong?
Wtf is r/rapingwomen? It can't seriously be what I think it isReddit are very sad about "prominent member" (Violentacrez) behind r/jailbait r/creepshots and r/rapingwomen deleting his account
I seriously need a Redditor to explain to me why posting pics of a childs vulva in tight shorts is cool but doxxing the guy behind it isn't?
I only went two pages deep.There's some definite butt shots in there.
My favorite is the guy who took a picture of himself in the mirror.
My favorite is the guy who took a picture of himself in the mirror.
Wtf is r/rapingwomen? It can't seriously be what I think it is
It's important to note, however, that C.S. Lewis was an avowed Christian. Not that being a Christian is a bad thing at all, mind you, just that C.S. Lewis never really thought there was a time when "no one is looking." God is watching you at all times.
As an atheist, it reminds me of some Christians (not all, as there are many intelligent Christian posters on this forum) who don't understand what stops me from being a sex crazed homicidal fiend.
This belief is similarly telling; it suggests that this group of people (who, I will emphasize one more time, does not represent the whole of Christianity) are only prevented from killing everyone they dislike because they are afraid of God's wrath, and not because they're simply nice people who want to be kind to others. It's similar to a school mate who only refrains from beating you up or belittling you because they're afraid of being punished by the school teacher, and not because they're nice and don't want to hurt others for no reason.
What you are describing, as they relate to Catholic teaching, are the concepts of perfect contrition and imperfect contrition (aka attrition.)
Perfect contrition could be described as one should be sorry for one's sins and, as such, choose not to sin because one loves God.
Attrition could be summed up as being sorry for one's sins and, thusly, choose not to sin because one fears hell.
In the Act of Contrition, it is prayed, in part: O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of heaven,
and the pains of hell (This expresses attrition); but most of all because they offend Thee, my God, Who are all good and deserving of all my love (And this expresses perfect contrition).
While a Catholic should always strive to act as one should according to their one's beliefs out of a true love of God, acting appropriately out of a fear of judgement doesn't make one a good person, per se, but it does dispose the soul to the reception of grace.
OT, I know, and theologically heavy to boot, but it ties in to what you were describing.
Can we have a separate thread for all the Reddit drama? It's getting pretty juicy.
I find people's behavior when allowed to act anonymously enormously telling: it reveals how you behave when you can "get away with it."
It is apparent that many people only respect and are considerate of others because they are afraid of being either jailed (if there is illegal activity) or cast out of their social circles (for being a jerk).
I feel that real kindness -- that is, what makes a person genuinely nice -- is an act done with no real expectation of compensation in return. Most friendships do not work like this: paying for your friend's gas now may help down the line when he does the same for you. Not cheating on your girlfriend makes it much less likely that she will cheat on you (is it even "cheating" at that point?) Being cruel to your mother and father jeopardizes the possibility for assistance or shelter if you should ever need it, and can also threaten any inheritance if there it exists.
Most friendships and family relationships have implicit social contracts which provide strong incentive to continue to be nice. Being nice to strangers who you never expect to return the favor is far more telling than how you treat those you believe may eventually repay you.
Wtf is r/rapingwomen? It can't seriously be what I think it is
I think he's just saying that the way you treat friends/family isn't an accurate assessment of your character, but rather how you treat strangers for whom you wouldn't expect to receive any reciprocity.You seem to take it pretty large with the "reward" thing though, at this point you might aswel argue that one is nice just to avoid a sense of guilt.
What i mean is, i don't think helping a friend and (eventually) expecting him/her to help you back is necessarily a conscious cynical decision.
I don't understand this thread
Not a fan of bumping old threads, but felt this was preferable to starting a new one:
POTATO_IN_MY_ANUS, one of the moderators of creepshots, is a GAFfer.
Who's David Croach and why is his real name here and what in the world is a shadowban
Potato in my anus...?POTATO_IN_MY_ANUS, one of the moderators of creepshots, is a GAFfer.
POTATO_IN_MY_ANUS, one of the moderators of creepshots, is a GAFfer.
You guys remember the first time you met Alyx in half life 2? I'm ashamed to say I crouched down in creep shot fashion. I promise I have no potatos in my anus though.
How does it reduce real world crime?
Who's David Croach and why is his real name here and what in the world is a shadowban
Not a fan of bumping old threads, but felt this was preferable to starting a new one:
POTATO_IN_MY_ANUS, one of the moderators of creepshots, is a GAFfer.
POTATO_IN_MY_ANUS, one of the moderators of creepshots, is a GAFfer.
Why would the creeps move here and not to 4chan, where you can be a lot creepier without anybody giving a single shit?Not surprised, I've lately seen a lot more reddit users move over to GAF.
I don't mind them, so long as they're not like the creeps in the creepshot sub-reddit.
Probably for the same reason that people take creepshots: the thrill of not getting caught.Why would the creeps move here and not to 4chan, where you can be a lot creepier without anybody giving a single shit?
You don't think there's a difference between the two, or how the subject of one versus the other might feel?
Just because your friend eats dog shit, do you have to follow through the same way? Just because one group takes no action at being published in embarrassing images, does that mean another group should just accept it?
I know a lot of women who don't consider themselves 'hot chicks' that find this 'creep shots' thing objectionable. But even if the did think they were 'hot chicks', then so fucking what?
It's an interesting thought. As games become more photo real, perhaps they will become an outlet for this type of thing. I'd be ok with it personally. A bit like how killing people in games reduces real world crime.
Not a fan of bumping old threads, but felt this was preferable to starting a new one:
POTATO_IN_MY_ANUS, one of the moderators of creepshots, is a GAFfer.