SquiddyCracker
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Statistics apply generally, there's always going to be individuals who feel their own situation is different from the norm.
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Statistics apply generally, there's always going to be individuals who feel their own situation is different from the norm.
Aizu_Itsuko
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I can't find the OP numbers in the first link (PDF). Is it the right link?
Red Dolphin
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Please. Or PM, lol
Thats like buying a Ferrari and being happy with going the speed limit all the time! I think a lot of girls are really against it at first. I know my girlfriend said absolutely not no way no how and we just did it the other weekend for the first time in her life. With girls, its all about trust and being comfortable with someone, at least thats my experience.
SquiddyCracker
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I just took it to mean plain missionary with no hands involved. Clearly there are positions/methods that offer extra stimulation for women during sex. I seriously doubt that only 20-30% of women can climax during sex, even when they are on top/using fingers to help along the process.
Believe.
andthebeatgoeson
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If you find a girl that cums often, keep her. I'm convinced the rate is based on her mental state. I can cum based off position and keep myself from cuming. I've seen some girls just focus and make that shit happen. It's so hot.
I'm going to die a virgin.
Vermillion
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Go to a bar, bring a condom and forget about love.
SquiddyCracker
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Don't worry, remember that statistics are only wide generalizations anyway.
On a nation-wide level, a 5-6inch dick might be average, but in some places the average will be lower and in others it'll be higher.
Besides, size alone doesn't neccesserily matter, as other numbers suggest that penile penetration sex in itself very rarely manage to bring women to orgasm. Even if you got a microdick, you can make a chick come just as well as a dude with a 10inch monster dingo.
I wonder what's the statistic for gaf.
would if i could
ComputerMKII
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SquiddyCracker
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You're incapable of walking to bars, forgetting about love, and/or bringing condoms?
I think I'm you.
computers putin'
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Are those measurments in the op bone pressed measurements?
SquiddyCracker
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Anyone know what video this is from?
Use measuring tape
Onion_Relish
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I know what you meant by spell check didn't
A fabric measuring tape as metal ones can be a bit too stiff
computers putin'
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I always heard that was the proper way to do it. It makes sense at least; since everybody has a different sized fat pad, measuring against the bone is really the only fair way to measure. But for some reason I didn't think these studies actually did bone pressed measurements, which made me think the actual averages where higher than these studies were reporting.
RumblingRosco
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Looks hot. What is it?
zucchini, I think
RumblingRosco
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Thanks smart ass, but I meant the red thing on the right!
SquiddyCracker
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Macmanus
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Depends if you're on the same drugs that your penis is on. If so, then also high?
Mostly the middle one.
Vermillion
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Way I see it is you can either wait to find love or just start having sex.
Inhibitions don't make it easy to just go out and start fucking. I mean I've considered the friends with benefits route as well, but I'm not exactly brimming with friends(female ones at that) though I have been trying to become more social and I've been moderately successful in this. In the end I'd be more comfortable with someone I know than some strange.
Vermillion
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Fair enough.
I found alcohol helped with this XD
Davey Cakes
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That female orgasm, man. It's like the holy grail. So weird how guys can do it so easily but with women it's a project.
When I finally started getting my ex to orgasm, I was so happy. But, it required her being on top and it required a lot of alternating pumping and grinding.
I'm pretty sure it wasn't fake because when it happened, she seemed to weaken a bit and I could feel some more wetness (and a different kind of wetness) down there. Plus I could kind of trust her not to lie. She never pretended to orgasm in any other position, so I feel like it was a particularity.
In terms of length, I'm average, but at least I know that doesn't prevent me from having good sex. When I'm in the mood, anyway. Yes, mood can play a role.
Still, 20-30% really isn't a lot. It's kind of sad, but it's not anyone's fault, really. Differences in biology.
When I finally started getting my ex to orgasm, I was so happy. But, it required her being on top and it required a lot of alternating pumping and grinding.
I'm pretty sure it wasn't fake because when it happened, she seemed to weaken a bit and I could feel some more wetness (and a different kind of wetness) down there. Plus I could kind of trust her not to lie. She never pretended to orgasm in any other position, so I feel like it was a particularity.
In terms of length, I'm average, but at least I know that doesn't prevent me from having good sex. When I'm in the mood, anyway. Yes, mood can play a role.
Still, 20-30% really isn't a lot. It's kind of sad, but it's not anyone's fault, really. Differences in biology.
OldKentuckyShark
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I don't think anyone was asking for you all to share your personal penis statistics, but hey, you know, thanks for sharing.
I've opened up to the thought of drinking socially, but it's not something I'm eager to do.
My problem isn't average. But fuck it since we're all men here I guess I'd share.
Average penis size is higher than average, but I have a problem with orgasms. I WISH it only took 4-5 mins, especially these days when you just don't have enough time to go all night.
Honestly the longer it takes, the higher chance for the thought that something is wrong, which then affects my performance. And if I don't achieve my goal, that too affects my state of mind for the next time I plan to have sex.
I didn't have a chance to read this entire thread, but does anyone else experience this? I've 27 years old by the way, and my problem is more common with men much older than I.
Average penis size is higher than average, but I have a problem with orgasms. I WISH it only took 4-5 mins, especially these days when you just don't have enough time to go all night.
Honestly the longer it takes, the higher chance for the thought that something is wrong, which then affects my performance. And if I don't achieve my goal, that too affects my state of mind for the next time I plan to have sex.
I didn't have a chance to read this entire thread, but does anyone else experience this? I've 27 years old by the way, and my problem is more common with men much older than I.
Devolution
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Start exploring positions that are more pleasurable. Get her to do kegels on your dick.
Do you masturbate? Does it take you long to go if you're doing it yourself?
Do you masturbate often? When you do, how's your grip?
You might be suffering from "the death grip". That is, your penis is only responding to a certain kind of physical stimulation.
What's the hangup?
Freeza Under The Shower
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apparently the statistics for higher educated people to be higher in terms for 'first sex', so it being higher is not necessarily a sign of 'virgins everywhere'.
Also, the immeasurable but probably real influence of "rape tactics to get laid" like taking advantage of drunk (read: already passed out) girls and so on, is likely a factor on that number.
The good news for us truly nice fellows is that we don't wind up fathering kids with teenagers and then leaving them, perpetuating a cycle of poverty and all-range hopelessness in terms of social mobility. Like, you know, those other guys.
You're (probably) not an asshole. That's a really good thing, and your kids (and wife / partner) will love you for it. Ask any social scientist.
edit: also, the fuck at 'girth'. oh, 3,14 for pi * measurement. Now I get it.
edit 2: some people don't seem to know that a baby's head has to pass through a diameter of about 10 cm at birth, meaning that any penis wider than that number would quite literally involve tearing a woman apart. Seriously, math.
Why wont you return my phonecalls?
I had it at 16
Gordon0Freeman
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WTF is wrong with you?
That would have be great, if most girls I've dealt with weren't lazy. Either way, I'm on hiatus right now, which leads to the next quote reply....
Yes i do. And that depends on how long I want it to go. I'm usually never quick with it, and maybe that is the problem.
My grip? Well I don't necessarily "choke the chicken". I'm a little gentle I think, but I do grab the more sensitive parts (my head region) when I feel I am ready to climax.
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