Heres the thing gaf,
Just like most men, i like to jerk off. I watch porn at least twice a week whenever shes not around, i follow/like a few hot models (some of them do cool stuff that i actually like that are not strictly modeling) and i don't follow pornstarts.. only people like Ariana Celeste and etc. MODELS) and sometimes I like their pictures on instagram and stuff ( i dont post comments like "i want you" or anything like that) but i don't mess around with other girls in person. I don't flirt with other girls, i don't wish i had another girl and i completely respect my girlfriend even tho she says that i don't because of what im about to tell you.
Now let me get into all of that separately. My GF and i dont live together and we see each other about once or twice a week because we go to school (not to the same one) and we work. We don't always have sex because we gotta have time for fun and social life too, so we go out as many times as we can and chill and stuff and any other day we chill at my house and have sex. Im not complaining about the way we do things because its not our fault that we have such a tight schedule.
Every man here knows what we do whenever we feel "sexual". We hop into that Brazzers and spend at least an hour between browsing and jerking off. It's on our nature. unless you're into a Religion that doesn't let you do it, you jerk off too. I like it, it feels good, its natural, inoffensive, im not cheating on anyone because HELLO ITS A PART OF MYSELF! and its the easiest way to bring the "horny" level down. This is what i think, but my girlfriend thinks entirely different.
Shes all against porn. She says that if i watch it, im going to be cheating on her because im seeing another woman naked. Shes always saying "oh what a shame ure just like all the others" just because i take an hour of my day to masturbate. I mean, really? I have a very different definition of what cheating means but ok. I mean, maybe i do it because i want to release some stress and shes not with me atm? or maybe im just feeling anxiety? horny? whatever! I kno if she were with me at that moment we would have sex, but shes not and in that moment i feel like i want to. so... ?? whats the big problem?
I don't care if shes drooling for Channing Tatum or any other actor. Everybody always fantasizes with a celebrity and i don't fight her when she does. All im doing is watching a video of some girl that i will never meet, i will never have and im doing it privately! On my own time, on my own! How is that cheating!?
We all have our private things that we do and we don't share it with anybody else. We don't talk to other people about when we jerk off ( Yes i know im doing it now, just keep reading lol) or about any other private things we do. I think the main problem is that we follow each other on the social media, so she can see what i like and who i follow. I don't check what she likes or follows because i can care less. Again, i see it as a private thing. Shes likes a picture of some shirtless dude? good for her. I know hes not gonna call her up and ask her to marry him! So why should i be going crazy for that? But she doesn't see it that way. As soon as I like somebody's picture, shes on the phone telling me how horrible i am.
Just a couple of hours ago, a friend of mine had a slightly similar problem with his wife. The main issue was the his daughter found porn on my friends computer and his wife didn't like that at all. Obviously. She doesn't care that he watches porn, she just hates the fact that her daughter saw it. Anyways, i was talking to my girlfriend about how long time ago my friend's wife found him masturbating and she started to cry and called all of us because she was very concerned. My GF got kind of upset and said " i can't believe he still masturbates even after getting married" to which i commented, "whats the problem?" yeah.. me and my big mouth knowing how my girlfriend thinks about masturbation.
After that, the whole thing derailed. She called me and i think she broke up with me. Idk yet. It's my 24th Bday today btw and tomorrow its our 3 years and 1 month anniversary. She told me that i should think about the argument and masturbate to that ( damn) and i can't remember what else she said but basically im immature because i watch porn and all that. Gaf, what the hell? Am i really the problem here? Do i need help and then ask for her forgiveness?
Before you answer you should know that i don't always jerk off once or twice a week. I don't think about it at all during the day so im not sick in the head lol. It is strictly whenever i feel like i want to have sex but shes not around.
Just like most men, i like to jerk off. I watch porn at least twice a week whenever shes not around, i follow/like a few hot models (some of them do cool stuff that i actually like that are not strictly modeling) and i don't follow pornstarts.. only people like Ariana Celeste and etc. MODELS) and sometimes I like their pictures on instagram and stuff ( i dont post comments like "i want you" or anything like that) but i don't mess around with other girls in person. I don't flirt with other girls, i don't wish i had another girl and i completely respect my girlfriend even tho she says that i don't because of what im about to tell you.
Now let me get into all of that separately. My GF and i dont live together and we see each other about once or twice a week because we go to school (not to the same one) and we work. We don't always have sex because we gotta have time for fun and social life too, so we go out as many times as we can and chill and stuff and any other day we chill at my house and have sex. Im not complaining about the way we do things because its not our fault that we have such a tight schedule.
Every man here knows what we do whenever we feel "sexual". We hop into that Brazzers and spend at least an hour between browsing and jerking off. It's on our nature. unless you're into a Religion that doesn't let you do it, you jerk off too. I like it, it feels good, its natural, inoffensive, im not cheating on anyone because HELLO ITS A PART OF MYSELF! and its the easiest way to bring the "horny" level down. This is what i think, but my girlfriend thinks entirely different.
Shes all against porn. She says that if i watch it, im going to be cheating on her because im seeing another woman naked. Shes always saying "oh what a shame ure just like all the others" just because i take an hour of my day to masturbate. I mean, really? I have a very different definition of what cheating means but ok. I mean, maybe i do it because i want to release some stress and shes not with me atm? or maybe im just feeling anxiety? horny? whatever! I kno if she were with me at that moment we would have sex, but shes not and in that moment i feel like i want to. so... ?? whats the big problem?
I don't care if shes drooling for Channing Tatum or any other actor. Everybody always fantasizes with a celebrity and i don't fight her when she does. All im doing is watching a video of some girl that i will never meet, i will never have and im doing it privately! On my own time, on my own! How is that cheating!?
We all have our private things that we do and we don't share it with anybody else. We don't talk to other people about when we jerk off ( Yes i know im doing it now, just keep reading lol) or about any other private things we do. I think the main problem is that we follow each other on the social media, so she can see what i like and who i follow. I don't check what she likes or follows because i can care less. Again, i see it as a private thing. Shes likes a picture of some shirtless dude? good for her. I know hes not gonna call her up and ask her to marry him! So why should i be going crazy for that? But she doesn't see it that way. As soon as I like somebody's picture, shes on the phone telling me how horrible i am.
Just a couple of hours ago, a friend of mine had a slightly similar problem with his wife. The main issue was the his daughter found porn on my friends computer and his wife didn't like that at all. Obviously. She doesn't care that he watches porn, she just hates the fact that her daughter saw it. Anyways, i was talking to my girlfriend about how long time ago my friend's wife found him masturbating and she started to cry and called all of us because she was very concerned. My GF got kind of upset and said " i can't believe he still masturbates even after getting married" to which i commented, "whats the problem?" yeah.. me and my big mouth knowing how my girlfriend thinks about masturbation.
After that, the whole thing derailed. She called me and i think she broke up with me. Idk yet. It's my 24th Bday today btw and tomorrow its our 3 years and 1 month anniversary. She told me that i should think about the argument and masturbate to that ( damn) and i can't remember what else she said but basically im immature because i watch porn and all that. Gaf, what the hell? Am i really the problem here? Do i need help and then ask for her forgiveness?
Before you answer you should know that i don't always jerk off once or twice a week. I don't think about it at all during the day so im not sick in the head lol. It is strictly whenever i feel like i want to have sex but shes not around.
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