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When did cuckolding become mainstream

The word it self or calling someone a cuck is so widely used these days it makes you wonder.

Actual cuckolding I can’t imagine was something the masses were aware of, but everyone knows what it is these days. It’s now a very common insult.

Cuckold porn seems to be on the rise too, it’s everywhere. I’m trying to watch a standard bj video while my gf is in the shower and I can see wife destroyed by bbc as hubby watches.

Have mainstream cuckold artists such as Neil cuckman helped promote this hobby to the masses? I feel like nobody knew what a cuck was 4 years ago.
 
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Pejo

Member
I wondered the same thing about the huge rise in incest stuff in the past 5 or so years. I'm sure memery has brought out the word "cuck" in the public eye, which causes people to Google it. I don't know why that has necessarily let it take off as a fetish though, other than feminized weak men seemingly becoming the norm. It's personally at the bottom of the fetish barrel for me right alongside BBW and feet.
 
I've never heard anyone use the word in the real world, only from seemingly younger people who spend time on the internet.

I’m trying to watch a standard bj video while my gf is in the shower and I can see wife destroyed by bbc as hubby watches.

Porn search engines are almost useless. I type "lesbian" with whatever I'm looking for and most of the results have dudes in them.
 
I've never heard anyone use the word in the real world, only from seemingly younger people who spend time on the internet.



Porn search engines are almost useless. I type "lesbian" with whatever I'm looking for and most of the results have dudes in them.
Well, they do identify as snatch attackers and are strong woman in their own right.
 

Weiji

Banned
The word it self or calling someone a cuck is so widely used these days it makes you wonder.

Actual cuckolding I can’t imagine was something the masses were aware of, but everyone knows what it is these days. It’s now a very common insult.

Cuckold porn seems to be on the rise too, it’s everywhere. I’m trying to watch a standard bj video while my gf is in the shower and I can see wife destroyed by bbc as hubby watches.

Have mainstream cuckold artists such as Neil cuckman helped promote this hobby to the masses? I feel like nobody knew what a cuck was 4 years ago.

Personally I think that Male / female dynamics are becoming increasingly toxic due to tinder and changing social standards around asking people out.

Women have fully committed to the cock carousel, thinking they’ll eventually land an alpha (statisticly impossible).

Meanwhile something like 80% of men have been relegated to the sidelines.

Women these days will strait be insulted if you ask them out, and may attempt to shame and or get you fired if it’s work related. (This is a longer conversation but look at the Gillette ad’s depiction of a guy trying to hit on a stranger)

There are also a serious lack of strong male role models, not just in cinema but also I’m the home.

The result of all this is deep seeded desperation and lack of self worth among men. I would argue this has become so bad that for many men the only sexual interaction they can imagine as possible is as a secondary surrogate to the actual act. Typically in a desperate and self degrading way.

Also see the rise of simping as part of this.

I am fortunate enough to have had decent luck asking women out directly, and I hate Tinder and refuse to use it. But cultural norms are moving in such a way I’m not sure that will remain possible forever.
 
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eot

Banned
I've only ever watched a cuck video once (by mistake), but it was Krystal Boyd so that made up for it. Otherwise, no thanks.
 
Porn search engines are almost useless. I type "lesbian" with whatever I'm looking for and most of the results have dudes in them.

"2 Lesbians suck off a lucky Guy"


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NoviDon

Member
I love cuckolding. Been with two cucks wives before. The cuck stays in the corner and beats off and films while you have all the fun its great. Hope the trend continues.
 

Nymphae

Banned
I was watching an episode of star gate sg1 and the character Teal’c is cuckolded by another man shagging his wife.

Like just had the wife jump ship, or are you talking actual fetish cuckoldry here. In the 90s you saw gay characters all the time despite it not being fully accepted, I would consider that relatively mainstream, and now it's fully mainstream obviously. I can't think of a single example of like a sitcom or family oriented show that displays this sort of behaviour, I think it's a long way off from waht people consider mainstream.
 

godhandiscen

There are millions of whiny 5-year olds on Earth, and I AM THEIR KING.
Judging by the numbers that OnlyFans posts, it does seem like “simping” is becoming extremely popular and the leap from there to cuckolding is not that big.

I would guess it has to do with the way in which some of these individuals grew up. For example, I always wanted to be Batman. Do these people grow up wanting to be Robin?
 

highrider

Banned
I feel like cuck is more just a wimpy, ineffectual man. But I really don’t use the word. It’s probably not uncommon.
 

eddie4

Genuinely Generous
"I love you so much honey I want to see another man pleasure you because I'm a little bitch and my dick is tiny."
 

haxan7

Volunteered as Tribute
I’ll concede that cuckoldry as a sexual fetish is at least well known.

I think it coincides with the general emasculation of men and the reappearance of Marxism socially and in politics. The Soviets were well known sexual degenerates and wife swappers.

When a culture loses its way, behaviors like these aren’t far behind.
 
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nush

Gold Member
I feel like cuck is more just a wimpy, ineffectual man. But I really don’t use the word. It’s probably not uncommon.

when they took F*GG*t away from us an insult a replacement needed to be found. A cuck is just soyboy that found a girlfriend. I've never heard anyone use those terms outside of online though.
 

Scotty W

Gold Member
It is connected in some way with the war on masculinity. The fear of being cuckolded is tied to the fear of the loss of masculinity. Somehow, this fear became a fantasy.
 

GymWolf

Member
I learned the term cuckhold in this forum last year...In italy we just say cornuto, basically a man with horns (in theory they grow when your wife fuck another man).
 
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Nymphae

Banned
I think a more interesting question is when and how did anal sex become mainstream.

I distinctly remember being in elementary school in the 90's and a kid bringing the term anal to school one day, no one believed him when he was telling us what it meant, this was pre-widespread access to internet porn. A couple of times on Gaf I've brought up Mallrats and that scene where Ben Affleck talks about fucking Brody's girl in the ass and it's made out to be a traumatizing thing women hate, then in Clerks 2 it's ass to mouth time and Rosario is down.
 

Goro Majima

Kitty Genovese Member
I remember seeing it as a niche fetish like 20 years ago on the internet but I’m not sure if it’s changed all that much. Seems more like the public knows what a “cuckold” is more than ever though.

Meanwhile everything is incest. Now that I didn’t see coming.
 
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I mean, everyone went to university with a guy who shared his girlfriend right? I can think of two dudes i personally knew who liked to share or watch.
 
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Trumpeter

Neo Member
Part of it is probably 'far right' sources pushing the word against their political opponents.

Even if that is true, modern left-wing males seem to very often fall into this kind of mental trap.

If you visit any website for streaming porn the first page is filled up with "black man fucking my wife/daughter/mom", directed at sexually inferior white men.

A lot of it is of course just following the lead of whatever economic forces that pays for it, but it wouldn't exist if there wasn't ANY market. Look towards any male feminists and "believe all women" type guys, they jack off to this shit and it is so disgusting that 99% of their ancestors throughout history would have beheaded them for it.
 
Probably just the latest trend in porn as it continues to destroy healthy sexuality en masse while people continue to defend it as a misguided notion of progressivism.

Yus. Porn was never a free speech issue, but it was framed that way by the producers in the early days. It's "acting", yanno. It has no value. It's as much free speech as me taking a shit in the street and calling it a protest or art. There's free speech for ideas and just outright acts of obscenity. People know the latter better than they know actually, usually not something we have to think about. But it's easily veiled in being "new" and "open-minded, or maybe "obscene is not objective" now that the goalposts have been in place so long they're firmly entrenched, the usual tactic we see.
 

Greedings

Member
My dad was a bull back in the 80s and 90s. He always thought it was weird that a guy would be in to it, but he did it as a favour for a few friends.
 
Cuck porn started becoming common in around 2015 I'd say

Having actually been active online since the mid 90's, and a long time worshiper of Pervos, God of Smut, there's been a lot of changes in what porn has been popular every few years.

The late 90's to early 2000's had far more parody porn, professional porn studios making most of what was out there, and most stuff was pretty artificial and tame by todays standards, while the niche but popular enough to be common stuff was anal, gangbangs, watersports and facials. It was a simpler time.

Then through the mid to late 2000's there was a surge in weirder shit due to the internet allowing fetishists to get together.

Bukkake, feet, tentacles, furries, hentai, really big natural titties and their sisters, the Phat Assed White Girls, along with trap models starting to become a popular taboo, meant porn was becoming far more diverse and catered to more unusual tastes more readily, while still being mostlyprofessionally made.

However, this was also the era of the celebrity sex tape, with Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian building entire media empires, coming off the backs of letting dudes film themselves cumming over their backs.

In to the 2010's and we'd started to see trans porn, cam girls, a sudden deluge of amateur video, mainstreaming of streaming sites like pornhub, previously looked down upon kinks like analingus becoming not just accepted, but weirdly desirable and entering pop culture, interacial porn and the objectification of black guys and 'Big Black Cocks', alongside the fake "incest" porn.

Big studios began falling to the wayside, and with everyone being online, everyone having the ability to film themselves, and the ubiquity of the idea of sex tapes due to the celebrity ones previously, porn creation and experimentation simply exploded all over themselves and each other.

As I said though, cuck porn really started to hit it big in 2015ish, about the same time Overwatch made cgi animated porn mainstream.

I'd say it's really died down recently though, and become subsumed into the more aggressive side of the interracial stuff that's far more common, as well as soemwhat into trans porn, to a lesser extent, which is also super common now.
 
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Super Mario

Banned
Just because people are just now hearing about it, doesn't make it mainstream. There have always been people into this.

But then again, there does seem to be a surge of loser men.
 

Rentahamster

Rodent Whores
When did you start thinking that it's mainstream? Cuz it's not. This might demonstrate that it's disproportionately on your mind.

Cuckold porn seems to be on the rise too, it’s everywhere. I’m trying to watch a standard bj video while my gf is in the shower and I can see wife destroyed by bbc as hubby watches.
This might further demonstrate that because the algorithm suggestions are tailored to your viewing habits and taste and what it assumes you'll like based on previous behavior.
 
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