I'm on the pill and engaged so usually all the time. I don't know why but for some reason it turns me on more after I feel him do it. Maybe just knowing he is satisfied does it? But I like him to and if I'm not there yet that usually helps.
I do hate the clean-up though. The whole clench and run to the bathroom like my life depends on it. I don't want it getting on the sheets or my clothes when I dress. Then sometimes even after you go to the bathroom, sometime later you feel a little leak, ugh hate that! Sometimes he wants to keep going after he does but I just can't, it's too much lubrication and I have to go clean up.