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Porn is killing our boners!

Nymphae

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Everything has a good and bad side to it just because of a few bad apples does not mean we need to ban it completely because the same can be said for a lot of other forms of media.

It's amazing that we can say that our situation is both good and bad simply because while some women (a ton) get totally wrecked from the inside out while disgusting people profit on their misery and the weak wills of society's current crop of "men", now we can squirt whenever we want to shame free and women are allowed their choices. See there's equal good and bad! I think a lot of women would probably prefer if more men were less interested in porn and more interested in self improvement, but this is not a popular take in media. SEX WORK IS REAL WORK BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS SLAVERY.
 
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haxan7

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Good post. Thank you. The production or distribution of pornography should be banned. There would not be a single founder who believed the First Amendment was meant to protect the pumping of this filth into our culture. These “men” who take naive young girls and prostitute them should be executed.
Outlaw porn and execute the people who produce it? This view is extreme. You are veering into the right-wing version of the regressive left's territory. And we already know where that leads.
 

appaws

Banned
If you read into more of these story you will realize most of these girls go into it willingly, This narrative that men some how force or manipulate women into doing porn has to stop because it is very sexist and like all other things in society it tries to take personal responsibility away from women.

Everything has a good and bad side to it just because of a few bad apples does not mean we need to ban it completely because the same can be said for a lot of other forms of media.

I don't care what a girl that young does "willingly." Young girls are stupid. They are being used and manipulated. I am a sexist and have never tried to hide it. Unmarried girls should remain under the control of their families. These porno guys are trash and the firing squad would be too good for them, they should find out what an anal prolapse feels like the night before going to be burned alive.

A lot of women have theorized this to me, saying guys are getting ED younger and younger.

I've heard that from someone who works in a college medical facility, that there are a shocking number of guys in their early 20s coming in for ED medications.

Outlaw porn and execute the people who produce it? This view is extreme. You are veering into the right-wing version of the regressive left's territory. And we already know where that leads.

Extreme? I don't care. Young girls being abused and ruined is extreme. Flooding our culture with filth that makes our young men into practical eunuchs is extreme. It only sounds extreme to you because you have been raised in this culture of self-worship, where whatever "I" want is the only true god.
 

haxan7

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Extreme? I don't care. Young girls being abused and ruined is extreme. Flooding our culture with filth that makes our young men into practical eunuchs is extreme. It only sounds extreme to you because you have been raised in this culture of self-worship, where whatever "I" want is the only true god.
Why don’t you move to Saudi Arabia? Sounds like that would be a better fit for you.
 

Nymphae

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It's amazing that we can say that our situation is both good and bad simply because while some women (a ton) get totally wrecked from the inside out while disgusting people profit on their misery and the weak wills of society's current crop of "men", now we can squirt whenever we want to shame free and women are allowed their choices. See there's equal good and bad! I think a lot of women would probably prefer if more men were less interested in porn and more interested in self improvement, but this is not a popular take in media. SEX WORK IS REAL WORK BEING A HOUSEWIFE IS SLAVERY.
I don't care what a girl that young does "willingly." Young girls are stupid. They are being used and manipulated. I am a sexist and have never tried to hide it. Unmarried girls should remain under the control of their families. These porno guys are trash and the firing squad would be too good for them, they should find out what an anal prolapse feels like the night before going to be burned alive.



I've heard that from someone who works in a college medical facility, that there are a shocking number of guys in their early 20s coming in for ED medications.



Extreme? I don't care. Young girls being abused and ruined is extreme. Flooding our culture with filth that makes our young men into practical eunuchs is extreme. It only sounds extreme to you because you have been raised in this culture of self-worship, where whatever "I" want is the only true god.

Sexual shame seems to be the theme here for a lot of guys...

How does porn get in the way of someone trying to self improve? If anything, being able to "rub one out" or explore your sexual desires in a safe and controlled environment (cellphone or laptop in your home) is better for men versus what was done in the past before porn like rape.

Look up the countries that ban porn and you will see that their rape numbers are through the roof compared to countries where porn isn't banned.

If some young guys become addicted to porn to the point where they get ED that isn't the fault of porn but most likely a indicator of a deeper psychological or emotional issue, they might be using the porn to "escape" which is similar to how some people form other addictions.

Look up pornstars like Gianna Dior or Riley Reid, they made the conscious decision to do porn because they didn't want to go the "normal route" and they enjoyed having a lot of sex, even before they got in porn. Plus both are making a lot of money from it, but you never hear these stories.

I am not staying porn is a great career path :messenger_tears_of_joy: ........but I am saying like other forms of media it has its good and bad.
 

Nymphae

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How does porn get in the way of someone trying to self improve?

Sitting in private and squirting your fluids onto yourself or into a tissue while you voyeuristically watch other people engage in the healthy activity (albeit distorted via pornography) you desire is not ideal, or even minimally beneficial, we all know this. If you asked someone if they'd rather beat off or have an intimate connection with someone they are in love with, they've have to be a redditor or retarded (but I repeat myself) to choose the self gratification.

Being able to deny base urges in favour of more productive activities is a good, positive, beneficial thing, squirting does nothing but drain you of your fluids. People make excuses to justify it for themselves "it relieves stress", so does many other things that are actually also beneficial for your body, like exercise. Do that instead of beat off, build self control. Aww but I wanna squirt now!

Look up the countries that ban porn and you will see that their rape numbers are through the roof compared to countries where porn isn't banned.

I like the look and sound of the US before porn was legal tbh compared to our current hellscape.

Plus both are making a lot of money from it, but you never hear these stories.

Are you kidding, "sex work is real work" has been bandied around for years now and pornstars have only gotten a better public image over the years, what you actually don't hear is stuff like the image I showed a few posts back, accounts from industry insiders of actually how depraved and demeaning the whole thing is, which sound fairly widespread. You found 2 depraved whores who are ok with it, I guess the industry's awesome!

I am not staying porn is a great career path :messenger_tears_of_joy:

Why not exactly
 
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appaws

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Sexual shame seems to be the theme here for a lot of guys...

How does porn get in the way of someone trying to self improve? If anything, being able to "rub one out" or explore your sexual desires in a safe and controlled environment (cellphone or laptop in your home) is better for men versus what was done in the past before porn like rape.

Look up the countries that ban porn and you will see that their rape numbers are through the roof compared to countries where porn isn't banned.

If some young guys become addicted to porn to the point where they get ED that isn't the fault of porn but most likely a indicator of a deeper psychological or emotional issue, they might be using the porn to "escape" which is similar to how some people form other addictions.

Look up pornstars like Gianna Dior or Riley Reid, they made the conscious decision to do porn because they didn't want to go the "normal route" and they enjoyed having a lot of sex, even before they got in porn. Plus both are making a lot of money from it, but you never hear these stories.

I am not staying porn is a great career path :messenger_tears_of_joy: ........but I am saying like other forms of media it has its good and bad.

You can’t just pick out one or two anecdotes and go by that. The “industry” chews through pretty young girls by the thousands. They go from “first timers” to “basketball team anal gang bang” in a matter of months and then are passed over for the new young face. Watch the documentary “Hot Girls Wanted” on Netflix. They all think they are going to be Jenna Jameson.

Look, I am not naive. Porn has always existed and is a very human impulse. Shit, there is porn on the walls of pyramids. As soon as men learned to draw they started drawing tits and ass. But if you look back not so many years it was a much more difficult proposition to get a hold of it, especially for a younger person. Men watched 16mm films at “stag” parties. You had to go to adult bookstores in terrible neighborhoods to get it. Now it is everywhere, free, and easy for young people to access and warps their sexuality from a young age.

I’m a kid of the 80s. I remember seeing
My uncle’s Playboys in a basket next to the toilet. I remember my friend across the alley inviting me over to see a “fuck film” and even that was just naked girls dancing. Pre-teen and teenage boys wanting to peep at T and A is completely natural and understandable. The situation we are in now where guys can’t even bone up to fuck real girls cause they have coomed to 10/10 porn whores taking fire hydrants up their asses so many times....that is a cultural crisis.
 
The real thing is definitely better than jerking it, but I still really enjoy porn on the side. Moderation folks.

Also the danger of overusing porn is kinda showing itself in this very thread. Younger people not getting laid because they jerk it too much with death grips and then who become socially awkward virgins who have unrealistic expectations regarding how to have sex and how attractive their partner ought to be.
 

Rentahamster

Rodent Whores

The damaged goods hypothesis posits that female performers in the adult entertainment industry have higher rates of childhood sexual abuse (CSA), psychological problems, and drug use compared to the typical woman. The present study compared the self-reports of 177 porn actresses to a sample of women matched on age, ethnicity, and marital status. Comparisons were conducted on sexual behaviors and attitudes, self-esteem, quality of life, and drug use. Porn actresses were more likely to identify as bisexual, first had sex at an earlier age, had more sexual partners, were more concerned about contracting a sexually transmitted disease (STD), and enjoyed sex more than the matched sample, although there were no differences in incidence of CSA. In terms of psychological characteristics, porn actresses had higher levels of self-esteem, positive feelings, social support, sexual satisfaction, and spirituality compared to the matched group. Last, female performers were more likely to have ever used 10 different types of drugs compared to the comparison group. A discriminant function analysis was able to correctly classify 83% of the participants concerning whether they were a porn actress or member of the matched sample. These findings did not provide support for the damaged goods hypothesis.



He advertised for volunteers at the Adult Industry Medical Healthcare Foundation, a now-defunct medical organization that used to administer mandatory tests for sexually transmitted infections to industry actors (tests are now done elsewhere).


Though the majority of porn stars would have used the Foundation's services, the volunteer sample makes it hard to know if the 177 actresses who agreed to participate in the study represent the industry as a whole. Nevertheless, the study is the largest sample of porn stars ever published.


The results of the research failed to support many common stereotypes. Most notably, the porn actresses were no more likely to report having been sexually abused as children than national averages or than a sample of demographically matched women Griffith and his colleagues recruited at a university and at an airport.


Porn actresses did report having sex for the first time at a younger age and having more partners (outside of work) than the typical woman, which is unsurprising, Griffith said, given that they likely got into the adult industry because they liked sex. (Of the 177 women surveyed, only one said she was coerced into a pornography career.) Sixty-nine percent of porn actresses ranked their enjoyment of sex as 10 out of 10, a rating given by only 32.8 percent of non-performers. [10 Surprising Sex Statistics]


Porn actresses were also more likely to report higher self-esteem than average women, another unsurprising finding, Griffith said.


"They do have to be comfortable with themselves in order to engage in intercourse in front of other people on camera," he said.


Kross warned that the finding that porn actresses enjoyed sex more than other women might be unreliable, given that a porn star's public image relies on her fans' belief that she thinks sex is the "greatest thing on the planet." But the self-esteem finding did not surprise her.


"All you hear from fans is, 'Oh, you're so wonderful, I wish I had a girlfriend like you,'" she said. "The fan base just adores us. They worship us online, and we hear it every day."


The stereotype that porn stars use more drugs than the average person was partially true, Griffith and his colleagues found. Porn actresses had tried more drugs than other women, though the only difference in recent drug use was a higher prevalence of marijuana smoking. The drug use could be linked to the personality of people who get into the industry, Griffith said.


"Maybe they're higher risk-takers," he said.


Kross agreed. "I have a feeling we've probably, as a demographic, tried skydiving more," she said. "We've probably tried monkey brains in South Africa more."
 

Nymphae

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What I find interesting is the equation of masturbation with pornography, as though one cannot masturbate without supporting an industry full of disgusting men, runaways and drug addicts who are being coerced into acts they'd probably not choose if they had better options available. The other interesting thing is that I'll bet not one of the coomers in here actually supports the industry they're addicted to with their own money, you have to wonder how something like this is able to be so widely available for free. It's weird how hard the entertainment industry polices piracy, but any porn title you can think of is accessible to a child with google no questions asked.

Like ok, fine, you're weak willed and you need to squirt on yourself because you can't go for a run or something. When was the last time you simply used a scantily clad picture of a woman you find attractive? Ever use just your mind and fantasize with your brain power, maybe about that hot girl you saw working at the convenience store? I used to do these things regularly as a young male, pre-proliferation of the internet. My nuts came out just fine, I didn't need to watch HD gangbanged assholes to imagine myself having hot sex with someone for 5 min. That said, I too have been weak willed in the past and I understand what it's like to waste hours scrolling through porn sites looking for that perfect vid to nut to, and it's just not something I consider very productive or beneficial. There's this notion that all these noble coomers are just taking a quick 2 min to destress then get back to redditing, BS bros, I know what cooming is like and I'm far better off for giving it up.
 
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Tesseract

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men are visual creatures, there's plenty of respectable porn where women are turned on, treated and paid well, and have a good time

you needn't go down unseemly rabbit holes where violence or degradation coexist
 
What I find interesting is the equation of masturbation with pornography, as though one cannot masturbate without supporting an industry full of disgusting men, runaways and drug addicts who are being coerced into acts they'd probably not choose if they had better options available. The other interesting thing is that I'll bet not one of the coomers in here actually supports the industry they're addicted to with their own money, you have to wonder how something like this is able to be so widely available for free. It's weird how hard the entertainment industry polices piracy, but any porn title you can think of is accessible to a child with google no questions asked.

Like ok, fine, you're weak willed and you need to squirt on yourself because you can't go for a run or something. When was the last time you simply used a scantily clad picture of a woman you find attractive? Ever use just your mind and fantasize with your brain power, maybe about that hot girl you saw working at the convenience store? I used to do these things regularly as a young male, pre-proliferation of the internet. My nuts came out just fine, I didn't need to watch HD gangbanged assholes to imagine myself having hot sex with someone for 5 min. That said, I too have been weak willed in the past and I understand what it's like to waste hours scrolling through porn sites looking for that perfect vid to nut to, and it's just not something I consider very productive or beneficial. There's this notion that all these noble coomers are just taking a quick 2 min to destress then get back to redditing, BS bros, I know what cooming is like and I'm far better off for giving it up.

But who made you in charge of telling someone how to manage their sexual impulses? If you didn't like porn why do you even care so much about getting it banned? ...... Because you don't like or agree with something, therefore it should not exist for other people?

Also do you realize how many types of porn exist? How do you know everyone is watching gangbang porn? :messenger_tears_of_joy:

Like I said before, the people who hate porn usually have deep sexual shame issues and they want to place that on other people, like seriously, do you realize how many "productive people" in our society that watch's porn from time to time. You can't tell me Jeff bezos or Bill Gates who spend hours online isn't looking at some tits every now and then ..... Its a billion dollar industry for a reason, even with free wide spread porn.
 
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eot

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men are visual creatures, there's plenty of respectable porn where women are turned on, treated and paid well, and have a good time

you needn't go down unseemly rabbit holes where violence or degradation coexist
I think the point is that over-consumption of porn (especially without the real thing) can lead to desensitization, where that stuff doesn't turn you on anymore. People slowly but gradually re-wire their brains in terms of what they're turned on by. Going down the rabbit hole, as you put it, is an involuntary thing for many people. That isn't to say that people don't have personal responsibility when it comes to that, I just mean that nobody wakes up one day and starts watching porn that repulsed them the day before, it's a gradual thing.
 

appaws

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Wow, someone brought my thread back from the dead…And porn is still killing your boners, making you into virtual eunuchs.

If you are a guy who is a five, you rightfully should be out trying to fuck girls who are fives, sixes on a good day, and maybe some fours on a bad day… But if you’re sitting home jerking off to nines and tens… It’s saps all your energy and turns you into a fucking woman.

Their is a five out there who needs your cock, beta boy. She is wet and ready to go, but you are sitting in your basement cooming to Remy Lacroix Instead of giving her what she wants… And also claiming yourself a wife in the process so you can pass on that DNA.
 
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TalentedMrJ

Member
I avoid it as much as I can. It's certainly not healthy.

^^^this
until my lady started working nights
penis getting drier and drier by the day
averaging 2-3 hours of porn per night
not proud to say that but it is what it is
Edging though, not wasting my life force on videos
 

DavidGzz

Member
Obesity rates also keep climbing. It isn't just the porn if at all, that's been here for a long time, it's being an unhealthy sloth. Shit reduces testosterone levels like mad.
 

Alfen Dave

Member
I legit jerked off to JK Rowling last night. Pictures of her in a blue dress. Don't know what that says about the study or me but I feel fine about it.

Edit: I found the pic

jk-rowling-premiere-of-harry-potter-and-the-half-blood-prince-odeon-and-empire-leicester-square-london-uk-2AJ995H.jpg

Spoiler because it's huge.

And so are they.



With my magic want, I would cast more than one spell at her.
Avada Kedevra Suck on my Cobra
 
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SkylineRKR

Member
Rowling looks fine. I did women her age (i'm 40 so it was not that huge a difference).

But I think this is true. When I was younger and internet happened I watched lots of porn, you'll see body features and stuff that doesn't match with average life. Once you realize this and lower your standards you'll find out those girls can fuck the living shit out of you which is always far better than jacking off to some fake ass surgery victims.

I think porn is stupid. all that yelling and surgery isn't my thing. I barely watch it anymore, if at all.
 

Rentahamster

Rodent Whores
I legit jerked off to JK Rowling last night. Pictures of her in a blue dress. Don't know what that says about the study or me but I feel fine about it.

Edit: I found the pic

jk-rowling-premiere-of-harry-potter-and-the-half-blood-prince-odeon-and-empire-leicester-square-london-uk-2AJ995H.jpg

Spoiler because it's huge.

And so are they.
Are you fucking BLIND????


That's a gold dress
 

Stouffers

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You know what’s sad? 30 years ago if someone asked you to imagine a boner, you’d instantly picture your own. Now when people ask you to imagine a boner, thanks to the prevalence of porn (especially POV stuff), you think of Mandingo, Shorty Mack, or Jason Verlander’s.
 

Devonshire

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You know what’s sad? 30 years ago if someone asked you to imagine a boner, you’d instantly picture your own. Now when people ask you to imagine a boner, thanks to the prevalence of porn (especially POV stuff), you think of Mandingo, Shorty Mack, or Jason Verlander’s.

Personally, the only boner I can imagine anymore is Shawn Mendes’. 😬
 
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