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[sasimirobot]

I picked up this mag in Japan that has like 4 pages devoted to explaining how to finger women.
(gotta love japanese porno)

I was a skeptic at first until I tried it out for myself!

Basically it just says to "pull" insted of push/poke. Curl the ends of your index and middle finger up while doing this (this stimulates the infamous G-spot), and rub and pull at whatever speed she responds the best to. They even have photos of women squirting water, but this seems kinda silly to me.

I wasnt a big fan of doing this before (maybe because I was a normal selfish man, only worried about getting off myself), but I have found that if you get it right it really can drive women crazy.

That and the fact that I secretly spend the rest of the day enjoying the smell of flowers...

 

[Warm Machine]

TTIUWP

 

[darscot]

I remember reading a poll about what was the one thing that women wished they got more of and a little finger action was tops on the list. It was a while back so might not have been tops but definatly up there. I haven't meet a girl yet that wasn't in to it. Who knew?

 

[Joe]

it's called "come hither" and with enough practice you can make any girl squirt.

 

[sasimirobot]

it's called "come hither" and with enough practice you can make any girl squirt.

Please tell us more...

I guess I need more practice, the girl gets really, really wet, and I noticed an interesting glaze on my fingers after; but the squirting thing is real?

 

[Belfast]

I guess its not common knowledge, but I've been doing this the entire time I've been, well...fingering girls. It definitely works and I'm not selfish about getting myself off. To be perfectly truthful, I get off on getting *them* off. I mean, I could jerk off any day of the week, myself, so who cares about that? Its about doing something I normally can't do by myself.

 

[Baconäger]

Please tell us more...?

Basically, you're supposed to move your fingers like you're motioning a person to come towards you. I've been using the method for awhile now with great success.

 

[radios shipping overview]

I guess I need more practice, the girl gets really, really wet, and I noticed an interesting glaze on my fingers after; but the squirting thing is real?

That's her usual lubrication. Sometimes women will ejaculate a bit of fluid right before or during orgasm, and that's a bit different - clear, odorless, harmless.

 

[Badabing]

In all seriousness, what ELSE are you supposed to do when fingering a girl?

 

[human5892]

I've known some girls who don't like that move, though. They say it's "too personal" and it makes them uncomfortable. But then, I've also known some who wouldn't want it any other way.

The bottom line is, all girls are different human beings with different preferences, and there's no stead-fast rule to please them all.

Except for donkey-punching.

 

[sasimirobot]

I understand the motions, but as far as water/cum shooting arcs across the room I have never seen it myself.

I have to agree though, helping a woman masterbate is really fun and afterwards she seems "down for whatever", even if she was being coy before.

In all seriousness, what ELSE are you supposed to do when fingering a girl?
uh...It isnt like that move just comes naturally to guys, I dont have the plumbing, how would I know what feels the best for her on my own?

 

[norinrad21]

I mastered the fingering a few years ago, women love that more than anything from my experience, its funny, you'd think they enjoyed hijacking more

 

[Mason]

Basically, you're supposed to move your fingers like you're motioning a person to come towards you. I've been using the method for awhile now with great success.

Also try doing this with two fingers, alternating 1, 2, 1, 2 (in other words, not just moving both at the same time).

 

[Baconäger]

Except for donkey-punching.

Very true.

Also, in my experience, nothing gets a woman hotter than asking for a blumpkin.

 

[XS+]

Uh I've been giving girls the finger since I've been having sex (I started to actually get good at it when I turned 20).. you guys must be pretty wack in bed.

 

[Badabing]

I understand the motions, but as far as water/cum shooting arcs across the room I have never seen it myself.

I have to agree though, helping a woman masterbate is really fun and afterwards she seems "down for whatever", even if she was being coy before.

In all seriousness, what ELSE are you supposed to do when fingering a girl?
uh...It isnt like that move just comes naturally to guys, I dont have the plumbing, how would I know what feels the best for her on my own?

You'll know what feels best for her by the faces she makes

 

[Belfast]

Besides, if you're girl's any good, if you get her off, you'll eventually get what you want out of her anyway. In fact, she'll likely take control and do it anyway, you don't even really have to ask. Its that kind of mutual understanding that builds relationships, too. Its not just being a sex monger.

 

[BojTrek]

FHUTA

 

[sasimirobot]

Uh I've been giving girls the finger since I've been having sex (I started to actually get good at it when I turned 20).. you guys must be pretty wack in bed.

uh...yeah. The first time you had sex you were perfect at it im sure. [insert roll eyes here]

Nobody here is clueless about the subject at hand, just sharing info on how to perfect it.

 

[Lil' Dice]

No thanks, i'll just use my penis....

 

[demon]

No thanks, i'll just use my penis....

How do you use the 'come hither' motion with your penis?

 

[MrPing1000]

Dammit we are internet forum geeks stop talking about sexual acts you've committed


STOP IT!!

 

[8bit]

How do you use the 'come hither' motion with your penis?

You need more practice.

 

[XS+]

uh...yeah. The first time you had sex you were perfect at it im sure. [insert roll eyes here]

Nobody here is clueless about the subject at hand, just sharing info on how to perfect it.

You're saying you've had your First Time recently? If that's the case then there's a valid excuse.

All I'm saying is, if your finger skills are weak at this point in time, you're probably not practicing or are good at other techniques rght now. (Or maybe not, I don't know you or anything)

 

[Mama Smurf]

Just make sure to keep your fingernails short.

 

[Azih]

Also very important. Learn from this sad tragedy.

http://forums.gaming-age.com/showthread.php?t=3411&page=1&pp=50

 

[Badabing]

Ever meet that type of "good girl" chick that everyone thinks is real nice and hot, but they all just assume she's real prude?

Well the other day I got this chick to reveal many secrets of hers (without the use of alcohol mind you).

Apparently, she likes to be dominated (Jaysus!), she doesn't like getting fingered as much as getting eaten out (but she knows that many guys our age are reluctant to eat out pussy because most of them are untalented at it or just too scared to do it). She also admitted that her partner needs to give her at least 20 minutes of sex in order to be completely satisfied. She said that size wasn't alll that big of a factor, but since she's a virgin she's afraid to take a big cock the first time anyway.

Now I don't know WHY she told me all this. She kind of just brought the subject up, saying that her ex-boyfriend was more reluctant to do anything with her than she was, and she found that odd. Now usually when a chick brings up her ex boyfriend, they're usually looking for a shoulder to cry on or someone to bitch about him with... but this time she was just talking about how he didn't please her.

One thing lead to another, and she and I were talking about what makes our motors run.

Thing is, I've got the right kind of gasoline to make hers run all day. Still though, I'm trying to figure out if she was telling me all that for a REASON (i.e she wants me to do her badly) or if she was just trying to make small talk (we've been friends for 4 years, now. Not best friends, but we keep in contact often).

Honestly, I don't know what to do with her, because it's more difficult than you think to figure out if someone likes you or not. I don't want to make a move this early, so I'll remain my normal self around her, but if she brings up a topic like this again, wellll...

I just turned 17, she turns 17 in August. (Hey, I remembered her birthday. Good or bad sign?)

 

[Azih]

Dude, if you're thinking of making a move, she's just given you an open invitation to do so.

 

[sasimirobot]

You're saying you've had your First Time recently? If that's the case then there's a valid excuse.

All I'm saying is, if your finger skills are weak at this point in time, you're probably not practicing or are good at other techniques rght now. (Or maybe not, I don't know you or anything)

No. Not my first time with the finger skills. I have even read and known about this tech. for a while but just never got into it. Like I said, I would rather try to get her off with the ol penis or toungue before. I just never spent the time to try to learn how to "jack" a girl off before...sorry.

Actually though, I enjoy "going down" alot, my last girlfriend gave me a 9 (out of 1-10 rating) for it and she said "if you used you fingers more...", that is what started my new interest.

But yeah, not every girl is the same. Some like this, some like that. That is what makes it fun, experimentation, luckily my current GF seems very pleased with the new direction I have taken.

 

[norinrad21]

Besides, if you're girl's any good, if you get her off, you'll eventually get what you want out of her anyway. In fact, she'll likely take control and do it anyway, you don't even really have to ask. Its that kind of mutual understanding that builds relationships, too. Its not just being a sex monger.

What he said

 

[demon]

or if she was just trying to make small talk.

Umm, I don't think that qualifies as "small talk". Obviously she wants your tongue and her clit to get friendly.

 

[sasimirobot]

Also very important. Learn from this sad tragedy.

http://forums.gaming-age.com/showthread.php?t=3411&page=1&pp=50

That is just stupid.

 

[Wellington]

Ever meet that type of "good girl" chick that everyone thinks is real nice and hot, but they all just assume she's real prude?

Well the other day I got this chick to reveal many secrets of hers (without the use of alcohol mind you).

Apparently, she likes to be dominated (Jaysus!), she doesn't like getting fingered as much as getting eaten out, but she knows that many guys are reluctant to eat out pussy because at our age most of them are untalented at it, or just too scared to do it. She also admitted that her partner needs to at least hold out from coming for at least 20 minutes.

Now, I don't know WHY she told me all this. She kind of just brought the subject up, saying that her ex-boyfriend was more reluctant to do anything with her than she was, and she found that odd. Now usually when a chick brings up her ex boyfriend, they're usually looking for a shoulder to cry on or to bitch about him with... but this time she was just talking about how he didn't please her.

One thing lead to another, and she and I were talking about what makes our motors run.

Thing is, I've got the right kind of gasoline to make hers run all day. Still though, I'm trying to figure out if she was telling me all that for a REASON (i.e she wants me to please her badly) or if she was just trying to make small talk.

Honestly, I don't know what to do with her, because it's more difficult than you think to figure out if someone likes you or not. I don't want to make a move this early, so I'll remain my normal self around her, but if she brings up a topic like this again, wellll...

Don't sit there and do nothing, at least string her along. I was in the same situation what like 2 years ago now and I fucked it up. I have to live vicariously through you now. :|

For the topic at hand, I've always gone by how they move their hips. At first it's pretty subtle but when they fuckin' hold yer head in there and start buckin' it's kind of obvious you got them where you want them.

 

[Acrylamid]

Dammit we are internet forum geeks stop talking about sexual acts you've committed


STOP IT!!

IAWTP
This forum is supposed to entertain me, not to make me feel inferior.

 

[aoi tsuki]

I guess its not common knowledge, but I've been doing this the entire time I've been, well...fingering girls. It definitely works and I'm not selfish about getting myself off. To be perfectly truthful, I get off on getting *them* off. I mean, I could jerk off any day of the week, myself, so who cares about that? Its about doing something I normally can't do by myself.

IAWTP 100%. i generally like pleasuring women moreso than myself during sex because i feel i get more from their enjoyment than from my own.

I've known some girls who don't like that move, though. They say it's "too personal" and it makes them uncomfortable.

It depends on the comfort level the girl has with you. i never just bust into the finger unless the girl is really horny and wet and just ready to fuck, which has happened only a few times. i like to work my way up her leg, around and up to the clit and eventually moving inside. i've never had a woman say it was too personal, but then those types do exist.

You need more practice.

PC exercises? i've tried them but i couldn't keep my interest in them long enough to see any benefit.

 

[MrPing1000]

IAWTP
This forum is supposed to entertain me, not to make me feel inferior.

Screw it im going to learn how to play dungeons & Dragons

 

[Lil' Dice]

How do you use the 'come hither' motion with your penis?

I've been fucking for a while now. Let me just say that during sex, a plump pillow is your best friend....

 

[MrPing1000]

I've been fucking for a while now. Let me just say that during sex, a plump pillow is your best friend....

someone report Lil Dice to the police QUICKLY!

 

[Belfast]

Most girls don't know what sexual animals lie inside of them. Seriously.

My current girlfriend has never had a boyfriend before, neither has she ever thought about pleasuring herself or sex. She's not a basketcase, she was just somewhat reclusive through her middle/high school years (she had friends, but rather "safe" friends who weren't sexually active either). Needless to say, she was just never exposed to it. Its really odd and even surprises me, but I believe her. Nonetheless, since I've introduced it to her, she's MORE than willing to go along with it. Intercourse is still tough for her, but I'll lighten her up to it like I've lightened her up to everything else, and she DEFINITELY enjoys it. She actually seems to feel guilty that she isn't giving me as much as I'm giving her.

I'm sure things will go farther eventually, but she reacts very well to what I do to her already and she really gets into it. A lot of girls like it, but they only like it with another person or they've never experienced it before, or whatever.

And DO NOT try to pleasure her with your penis. That's retarded. Intercourse is something you should work up to, and yeah, that involves your penis, but they're not interested in you using only one of your many, possible tools. Plus, eating out works VERY well on most girls. Even if you're reluctant to try, you get used to it after awhile.

 

[StrikerObi]

Ever meet that type of "good girl" chick that everyone thinks is real nice and hot, but they all just assume she's real prude?

Well the other day I got this chick to reveal many secrets of hers (without the use of alcohol mind you).

Apparently, she likes to be dominated (Jaysus!), she doesn't like getting fingered as much as getting eaten out (but she knows that many guys our age are reluctant to eat out pussy because most of them are untalented at it or just too scared to do it). She also admitted that her partner needs to give her at least 20 minutes of sex in order to be completely satisfied. She said that size wasn't alll that big of a factor, but since she's a virgin she's afraid to take a big cock the first time anyway.

Now I don't know WHY she told me all this. She kind of just brought the subject up, saying that her ex-boyfriend was more reluctant to do anything with her than she was, and she found that odd. Now usually when a chick brings up her ex boyfriend, they're usually looking for a shoulder to cry on or someone to bitch about him with... but this time she was just talking about how he didn't please her.

One thing lead to another, and she and I were talking about what makes our motors run.

Thing is, I've got the right kind of gasoline to make hers run all day. Still though, I'm trying to figure out if she was telling me all that for a REASON (i.e she wants me to do her badly) or if she was just trying to make small talk (we've been friends for 4 years, now. Not best friends, but we keep in contact often).

Honestly, I don't know what to do with her, because it's more difficult than you think to figure out if someone likes you or not. I don't want to make a move this early, so I'll remain my normal self around her, but if she brings up a topic like this again, wellll...

I just turned 17, she turns 17 in August. (Hey, I remembered her birthday. Good or bad sign?)

Stop spending your time on GAF talking about this girl. Go get her, she's telling you she wants you. Maybe not for actual sex yet (seeing as she's a virgin) but she definatly wants some sort of action.

Also, don't be a fucking jerk to her.

Spoiler

FHUTA

Most girls don't know what sexual animals lie inside of them. Seriously.

My current girlfriend has never had a boyfriend before, neither has she ever thought about pleasuring herself or sex. She's not a basketcase, she was just somewhat reclusive through her middle/high school years (she had friends, but rather "safe" friends who weren't sexually active either). Needless to say, she was just never exposed to it. Its really odd and even surprises me, but I believe her. Nonetheless, since I've introduced it to her, she's MORE than willing to go along with it. Intercourse is still tough for her, but I'll lighten her up to it like I've lightened her up to everything else, and she DEFINITELY enjoys it. She actually seems to feel guilty that she isn't giving me as much as I'm giving her.

I'm sure things will go farther eventually, but she reacts very well to what I do to her already and she really gets into it. A lot of girls like it, but they only like it with another person or they've never experienced it before, or whatever.

And DO NOT try to pleasure her with your penis. That's retarded. Intercourse is something you should work up to, and yeah, that involves your penis, but they're not interested in you using only one of your many, possible tools. Plus, eating out works VERY well on most girls. Even if you're reluctant to try, you get used to it after awhile.

I started reading this and then I looked at the poster and I was like "wait I know that guy" and then I felt dirty for reading it. Great advice though. I'd follow it if I didn't already follow it.

 

[XS+]

I just never spent the time to try to learn how to "jack" a girl off before...sorry.

Well you should! She'll buy you presents and stuff if you're good enough.

 

[MrPing1000]

Well you should! She'll buy you presents and stuff if you're good enough.

sounds like a game show.

 

[Badabing]

PC exercises? i've tried them but i couldn't keep my interest in them long enough to see any benefit.

(Assuming that your talking about the PC muscle near your penis which is the main factor in how fast you cum in bed)

Let me just say that PC exercises could be very beneficial, but only if you use your PC muscle properly. There's really no point in doing PC exercises unless you know what to do with your PC muscle during sex. If you squeeze it during sex, you'll cum faster.

Using your PC muscle the right way takes practice. The only way to practice is to "edge" during masturbation... which means bringing yourself really close to climax, and then STOP WANKING and squeeze your PC muscle intensly so that you don't ejaculate. You have to do this a lot, but with enough practice, you'll eventually be able to have "dry" orgasms (You don't ejaculate, but you still orgasm... you're penis doesn't go soft after dry orgasms, and you can keep screwing the chick for at least another 30 minutes). I've mastered this technique through a lot of trial and error (and admittedly, many a blown load), but now I can please women quite well. It's pretty cool knowing that you're pleasing your woman more than any other guy knows how, especially when you go 40 minutes with a rock solid erection on her and the whole time she's loving every minute of it.

Anyway, don't take my word for it. Look it up. There are many forums on the internet that talk about this very same stuff I'm telling you, and if you keep with it, you'll find that it's a life-long benefit. I know it sounds odd hearing this for the first time, because the truth is there's a very small group of people out there that know about this technique/what the hell I'm talking about, so use it wisely. This is something that we nerds can keep to ourselves.

What's the first rule about Having Long Lasting Sex Club?

Don't tell anyone about Having Long Lasting Sex Club.

 

[sasimirobot]

Not gonna give out the URL, dont wanna be banned but this video is on my Xmas list for sure--->

Explosive Orgasms! Special SOD Edition of "Female gushing!"

Number in stock: 5 Weight: 200 g. Price: $30.00
Product type: DVD (zoned for ALL countries) (What is this?)

This compilation DVD is a specialty fetish here in Japan, involving heavy and wild fingerbanging (masturbation) in which the G-spot of the actress is located and then in a flurry of hand work, is brought to wet orgasm. Known as shio-fuki (the same word describes a whale blowing air and water out of his spout), it features 27 beautiful girls such as Kurumi Morishita, Chisa Moritaka, Mai Tamura, Reiko Yamaguchi, Rin Tomosaki, Nanami Nanase and many others who all get wet and wild. It's an exhaustingly mindblowing concept on DVD from Deep's. 120 minutes of non-stop action.

 

[sasimirobot]

(Assuming that your talking about the PC muscle near your penis which is the main factor in how fast you cum in bed)

Let me just say that PC exercises could be very beneficial, but only if you use your PC muscle properly. There's really no point in doing PC exercises unless you know what to do with your PC muscle during sex. If you squeeze it during sex, you'll cum faster.

Using your PC muscle the right way takes practice. The only way to practice is to "edge" during masturbation... which means bringing yourself really close to climax, and then STOP WANKING and squeeze your PC muscle intensly so that you don't ejaculate. You have to do this a lot, but with enough practice, you'll eventually be able to have "dry" orgasms (You don't ejaculate, but you still orgasm... you're penis doesn't go soft after dry orgasms, and you can keep screwing the chick for at least another 30 minutes). I've mastered this technique through a lot of trial and error (and admittedly, many a blown load), but now I can please women quite well. It's pretty cool knowing that you're pleasing your woman more than any other guy knows how, especially when you go 40 minutes with a rock solid erection on her and the whole time she's loving every minute of it.

Anyway, don't take my word for it. Look it up. There are many forums on the internet that talk about this very same stuff I'm telling you, and if you keep with it, you'll find that it's a life-long benefit. I know it sounds odd hearing this for the first time, because the truth is there's a very small group of people out there that know about this technique/what the hell I'm talking about, so use it wisely. This is something that we nerds can keep to ourselves.

What's the first rule about Having Long Lasting Sex Club?

Don't tell anyone about Having Long Lasting Sex Club.

Master Mantak Chia (sexual Taoist)
274 Moo 7 Luang Nua
Doi Suket
Chiang Mai, Thailand 50220

Yes. I live in Thailand, I know quite a bit about that technique, its nothing new in Asia...

 

[Chittagong]

Any chance scans would be allowed in off-topic forum?

 

[Badabing]

Stop spending your time on GAF talking about this girl. Go get her, she's telling you she wants you. Maybe not for actual sex yet (seeing as she's a virgin) but she definatly wants some sort of action.

Yah, yah I know that it's easy to give that kind of advice over an internet forum, but this situation is a little different for me, and I'm sure most people here have been through it. I'm no stranger to love making, but I've only done it to chick's that are pretty much aquaintences to me (Chicks that I don't know very well, and I know that I won't have to keep in contact with them somewhere down the line).

And this chick, as SMOKING and NICE and SEX HUNGRY as she is... things are just different with her, since I've known her so long and I can actually consider her a real friend to me.

O yah, also, this chick is one of the hottest ones in school. As I said before, she is PRUDE. She had a lot of boyfriends, but breaks up with them only a few weeks after going out with them... she actually digs older guys, and her ex-boyfriend was a senior but he didn't do anything for her apparently...

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is this........

She and I are friends. Assuming that she and I do the no-pants dance... there's a possibility where there may be pressure for me to go out with her, and that is ONE THING I'm not ready for. I can do anyone all I want but man... commiting my self to this one chick all year sounds so ackward for me. I've never had a girlfriend before, cuz I never needed one. I'm not bad looking, I've been called "Tall, Dark, and Handsome" on many occasions. Needless to say, since there are so many parties going on around this town all year, I haven't had much of a difficulty "enjoying" myself with other women.

I guess I just don't want to actually go out with this chick. I don't want to have to ditch all my friends during school so I can hang out with her for 3 minutes before her class starts. I don't want to dedicate this much time to a woman, even as hot as this one.

It's all difficult to understand, I know. But I'm just scared. I'm scared to go out with her, and I'm scared that if I don't go out with her, then there's a possibility she and I may not be friends anymore. Either way, I'll please her good, but then after that, I'll have no idea what the future will hold between me and her.

Yah, I'm getting ahead of myself. But this wouldn't be the first time.

 

[Badabing]

Master Mantak Chia (sexual Taoist)
274 Moo 7 Luang Nua
Doi Suket
Chiang Mai, Thailand 50220

Yes. I live in Thailand, I know quite a bit about that technique, its nothing new in Asia...

I was helping that other dude out, because it's new to him...

 

[sasimirobot]

I was helping that other dude out, because it's new to him...

No sweat. I havent actually studied under that guy, it was something a friend gave to me before I moved to Thailand (shit its was still in my wallet after all this time!).

But now that I have read this Im a little...uh... suprised...at female masterbation


Sena: I eventually did it so hard that my skin ripped and blood was going everywhere. That's when my grandfather came in. He passed away now, but he came in back then he saw me against the wall, my legs spread apart wide and a vacuum cleaner hose in my *****. He just told me that I had a phone call and left. AHahahahaha. He looked to embarrassed to say anything.

Interviewer: How old were you then?

Sena: 14.


I gotta stop with the japanese "hentai", it is really ruining my mind?

 

[clipunderground]

These threads kill me. lol