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GeorgPrime
Banned
I dont like girls that are bigger than me too. So i would reject her too.
ThatStupidLion
Gold Member
yes. you have an internal struggle clearly.
that said, in general, you need to be attracted to someone for a relationship to have any chance at a future. and since you werent, youre cutting losses early. thats all.
that said, in general, you need to be attracted to someone for a relationship to have any chance at a future. and since you werent, youre cutting losses early. thats all.
DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
That's super lame! Yeah you're in the wrong. Your ego got bruised ...
Nobody_Important
“Aww, it’s so...average,” she said to him in a cold brick of passion
Yeah that's pretty lame in my opinion op.
If she makes you happy then why should you care what other people think from the outside looking in?
If she makes you happy then why should you care what other people think from the outside looking in?
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Stilton Disco
Member
It's pretty shallow but it would be worse to force yourself to date someone you don't fancy because you don't want to appear shallow (which again, you are, just own it.).
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Stiflers Mom
Banned
Is it then also lame if girls don't want men that are shorter than them?
DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
I'm 5'7"... And my dream woman is 6'1" ... She's beautiful and sexy and smart!
No Napoleon complex here!
No Napoleon complex here!
DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
Technically, that's different. Women want to feel protected. That's a basic instinct of women... The bigger the man, the more secure they feel. If he's shorter than them, they don't find that attractive at all because they don't feel protected!
There's women who don't care about height but it seems they're the minority.
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appaws
Banned
I am going to go contrary to everyone else. It is better for her in the long run, so she can move on to a guy who is really into her. Why waste her time when there is something that obviously is a problem for you? You shouldn't feel bad about it. Of course it always sucks to be rejected, but it happens to everyone.
Slings and Arrows
Banned
This.
If you don't find her attractive, then you don't. Doesn't matter if it's height, weight, voice, eyes, arse etc.
GeorgPrime
Banned
In the end its all about personal taste when it comes to a one night stand or a relationship.
I like tall girls when they are as big as iam but as soon as they are bigger than me... i dont care. In my case that would be like 190 cm or more.
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DeafTourette
Perpetually Offended
He didn't say she was unattractive or ugly. Just that she's one inch taller than him.
ONE INCH!
JareBear: Remastered
Banned
I’ve known a few girls who say they would never date a guy shorter than them. That always seemed kinda weird to me.
oddly enough, the biggest “playa” I ever knew is a short dude
oddly enough, the biggest “playa” I ever knew is a short dude
TrainedRage
Banned
If one inch makes that much of a difference how do you explain your penis?
Mitsuda Maniac
Member
One of my best flings ever was with a tall redhead with long slender legs.
Richard Packer
Member
Just wear heels on dates.
Doom85
Member
As long as you didn't actually say that was the reason to her. People can feel bad enough about stuff they can do something about (bad hygiene/haircut/excessive obesity) but to feel rejected over something they have zero control over just makes the feeling FAR worse according to quite a few people I've talked who have been told it's a specific physical trait they can't change for why they're being rejected.
That being said, a 1 inch difference is too much, for real? "You do you", and by that phrase I actually mean that might be your only choice for a while if you're going to be that picky about even giving someone a chance. Like damn, at least give a date a shot.
That being said, a 1 inch difference is too much, for real? "You do you", and by that phrase I actually mean that might be your only choice for a while if you're going to be that picky about even giving someone a chance. Like damn, at least give a date a shot.
MaestroMike
Gold Member
I call BS theres probably another reason pics 4 further inspection plz
AlteredForms
Banned
Lemma gi tha numba.
And pass that physical description too.
And pass that physical description too.
iconmaster
Banned
It shouldn't be an issue until her knees give out.
Just keep from ever mentioning the height difference. It's one inch, she may not have even noticed. TWSS
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Prison Mike
Banned
One inch taller Hahaha yes your in the wrong....... Unless of course you have another eternal struggle involving one inch
Can't decide
Member
This. I never sought to go out with anyone taller than me either, but then I realised I was only doing it because of small man syndrome or something.
I'm 5'8 and I've been with someone who is 5'10 for 7 years now.
JareBear: Remastered
Banned
Dude, same here.
She was a volleyball player for a good college program on the west coast. About 5’11, absolutely banging body and was freaktastic
that was a great summer.
RIP my young manhood
I need a time machine. I peaked too soon
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Stouffers
Banned
Sorry to hear that. Have you tried thinking of baseball?
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cryptoadam
Banned
How big da boobies and booty?
Asian?
Asian?
420bits
Member
No, it's your life and you are allowed to reject anyone you want for whatever reason you want.
Stiflers Mom
Banned
First off Insulting someone and then giving them a hard time for 'rejecting somebody' is kind of idiotic, isn't it?
M1chl
Currently Gif and Meme Champion
It was written as a joke and I don't see how I give him a hard time, maybe I am giving him a benefit of the doubt, that it was not sole reason to reject her...
No different than rejecting a girl because she is too ugly for you, fat, skinny, stinks, is stupid, is fucking mental, etc. You are attracted to what you are attracted to is all it is. There is no point in staying with someone you are not attracted to. Anyone who says looks dont matter is a liar, they always matter to some degree to everyone.
Conversely trying to find a perfect woman physically is impossible and shallow. You should like her for her first and foremost, then if she is physically within your acceptable limits its all good. Like my wife is awesome and I love her even though she is not perfect mentally or physically but any shortcomings she has are perfectly acceptable to me and I can deal with them.
Conversely trying to find a perfect woman physically is impossible and shallow. You should like her for her first and foremost, then if she is physically within your acceptable limits its all good. Like my wife is awesome and I love her even though she is not perfect mentally or physically but any shortcomings she has are perfectly acceptable to me and I can deal with them.
Heebie Jeebies
Banned
Try standing up straight instead of slouching
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