Just when I thought I had erased that fucking song from my head...Nope.
But I can't bare her tiktoks, I swear if I hear "oh no, oh no" one more time, I think I'm going to stamp on her phone.
Not my style, or hers. But thanks for the tip.Minecraft dungeons if you can get past how it looks.
My other half plays games too, she loves animal crossing New horizons and dead by daylight, and we are going to play sniper elite 5 togetherJust when I thought I had erased that fucking song from my head...
On topic: nah my wife plays games too, she recently beat kirby the forgotten land since we got an Oculus recently she's chewing thru games. Beat the 3 episodes of vader immortal over the weekend lol.
Kids always throw a spanner in the work.Since my baby girl was born 10 months ago she gets pissed if I play games instead of doing chores around the house or helping with my daughter.
I'm in college again, been for a year now, if I try to study, do homework or a zoom call for a group project SOMETIMES she also gets a bit cranky.
Anything that's entertainment I do it after everyone gets to bed.
So... I don't play anything anymore.
Good advice. Thanks.No, she frequently asks me what I'm playing if I'm on PC or Steam Deck and when it's not obvious like PS5 games on TV. We often play Mario Kart together or she plays Animal Crossing while I'm doing something.
You should talk to her, mate, and get to the bottom of it. Even if she can't find an answer at first but you guys have to dig through that, otherwise she keeps getting annoyed (for whatever reason) and this gonn annoy you and soon you're all in a fight over the stupidest things.
I work with couples and people, parents, kids etc for a living and I can tell you from experience that it is a problem she has to figure out and it's something in her perception and it's not you going after your hobby per se. It is the way she sees the world and you. She has to work on her mindset regarding your hobby.
Obviously you can and should help her with that, maybe make her understand what it is you see in video games and how it's not different from any other hobby like reading, watching things on TV, going to the cinema, theatre etc. She obviously don't have to love it but she should respect that. Don't make an argument about other things, keep it on topic, but tell her you respect her hobbies as well and you wouldn't want her to ditch the stuff she loves. Tell her that you want mutual respect in your relationship.
So, be honest about it. Tell her why you want to get to the bottom of it, like you don't want it to become a bigger problem later. Also ask her why she would want you to have a different hobby. Then make her understand that you doing things/having hobbies aren't meant for her enjoying but it's for you. It's not your job to have a hobby what she finds "cool".
if it's early on and you aren't in that relationship for years or kids aren't involved and If she doesn't appreciate honesty and can't give you the smallest respect ditch her before some psycho shit starts. I've seen that plenty and it usually ends bad for men because women get away with a loooot of shit if they really go down that route.
One doesn't have to like videogames to let their partner enjoy them..... My girlfriend isn't a gamer, yet she encourages me to enjoy my games. It's a mindset.Who would be stupid enough to marry somebody who doesn't like videogames and share their hobbies?
Who would be stupid enough to marry somebody who doesn't like videogames and share their hobbies?
Fucking hell Jesus ChristGet a divorce dude.
I have this miserable friends who ESCAPE to sit in a fucking car in a garage in order to not sit with their wifes lol.
My one buddy FINALLY upgraded to ... 1060 6gb and I had to buy it for him and then we had to play the whole scheme where their old pc "broke" so I came in to "repair" it an installed new gpu. and that lady gets angry when he sits in front of the pc.
Another buddy have a wife that finds him something to do, the MOMENT he touches the pc. And he is the most good guy I've even knew. He earns 5x much as she, takes care of kid, taxes, home. She sits on her ass and only finds him stuff to do lol
Kids fuck up everything. She's only going to get worse from here on in as the kid slowly chips away at her patience, looks, and self worth. Have fun.Since my baby girl was born 10 months ago she gets pissed if I play games instead of doing chores around the house or helping with my daughter.
I'm in college again, been for a year now, if I try to study, do homework or a zoom call for a group project SOMETIMES she also gets a bit cranky.
Anything that's entertainment I do it after everyone gets to bed.
So... I don't play anything anymore.
I'll never understand grown men yelling at the TV in online multiplayer gamesIt depends. She doesn't like it when I get angry and yell playing Warzone. And she doesn't like when I play bloodborne because of its artstyle. The rest she doesn't mind unless as long as I'm not neglecting anything. We even play some coop games together, like it takes two, Rayman Legends and similar.
Sometimes is actually just 'yes' though!?Where is the option sometimes? It can't be just black and white.
I feel attacked here...I'll never understand grown men yelling at the TV in online multiplayer games
I'm not trying to paint with a broad brush, but there are certainly women out there who seem to desire the misery of their man, women who are bothered by the joy of their partner.Another buddy have a wife that finds him something to do, the MOMENT he touches the pc. And he is the most good guy I've even knew. He earns 5x much as she, takes care of kid, taxes, home. She sits on her ass and only finds him stuff to do lol
I know people swear by kids and I will be lone sad fuck when I grow old... but I am 33, wife is 32 and we do not have or want kids and we are so happy lol.Kids fuck up everything. She's only going to get worse from here on in as the kid slowly chips away at her patience, looks, and self worth. Have fun.
One thing I did to get around her complaining was to take the kids to my gaming room, and let them play in my room while i played my games. It wasnt the most immersive experience but this way she got to have a break while i got to play my games. That and putting kids to bed at 9 PM sharp.
Another thing you can do is ask for an hour and a half after you come home to wind down. Doubt she will say no to that. You can play during that time. Then take over your daughter for the next two hours until 9 then put her to bed yourself and you have a good 3-4 hours of gaming time after that.
Your wife is a Stacy. Stacy's partner are called chads. Chads dont play Video games. Your wife want you to be a chadMy wife does not like it when I play video games. Although has no problems if I end up wasting time via TV shows etc. In truth I'm not even sure why it bothers her so much! She previously felt gaming was reserved for losers only however I have a very good job and earn double her monthly salary. Gaming is just so much more fun than watching some garbage on Netflix.
Christ... that is a perfect description of his wife... oof.I'm not trying to paint with a broad brush, but there are certainly women out there who seem to desire the misery of their man, women who are bothered by the joy of their partner.
Where did you bury her? :O