VlaudTheImpaler
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You talking to me? I'm sorry if you don't think people can change, but do you have any idea how many times this scenario has happened over the course of my life?And as proven by how muslims treat Christians in middle east, the Christians helping these "refugees" will not be afforded the same compassion when those Christians become minorities in their own countries.
They dont integrate not because theyre not given support, they are and plenty, they choose not to integrate because they dont want to change how life was back where theyre from, they simply want to change the way other people live and have those people pay the bill for them all the while living in first world living standards that Europeans died for over multiple world wars to protect and provide for future generations.
Kindly fuck off with your dead end virtue signalling.
You cant help those who dont want to be helped and your compassion is weakness in their eyes.
1. Person thinks I'm their enemy simply because I don't agree with them on a fundamental level.
2. Same person comes across tragic hard times...
3. Boom, out of the blue I am there to help them.
4. Tears.
5. Bewilderment.
6. Love.
7. Understanding. Even if we still don't fundamentally agree sometimes...
Time after time I've been able to change peoples hearts and minds by being there for them in their time of need. The reason many of these people you speak of turn into "leaches" so to speak isn't due to people showing compassion and love. It's due to people not knowing what kind of love to show and how to show it. Much like you've shown in the tone of your post...
I agree though. Promising people everything isn't love. Giving them everything they want isn't love. It's enabling the behavior that got them there in the first place. And if that person in my analogy came upon hard times a second or third time and it was self brought then my "help" would be very, very different if I gave it at all. It all depends on the situation.
Part of real love is giving people what they really need when they need it. For instance, on illegal immigration/refugees. I believe that if people really want to take them into our country, then they should be taking these people in to their homes where they would be able to make sure their standard of living is as nice as they believe it should be and where they can help guide the influences these people would receive here. OR send them back to their own country while educating them in a loving way on why this is so important for the future of their country. That way, even if you send them back, they still experienced what true love is. No one can know how that will affect their lives.
I remember one day walking through a park for a car show, in a city I'd never been to, and this guy I hadn't seen in forever walked up to me and hugged me and just started bursting into tears right there in front of everyone. He was a guy I had mentored but ultimately had written off and left it to the Lord. The last time I saw him I'd left him with some stern love by telling him it's up to him, no more help... I barely even recognized him from what he looked like before. He was so well put together. He told me how much my love and effort had ultimately helped him turn his life around and how close to the brink he was. He had this amazing story of recovery and told me about the awesome stuff he was involved in now which was leading him oversees. I'll never forget his smile. Left me grinning for days.
Sometimes what you really need ins't what you think, or even what you want. For instance, an addict thinks they need drugs. But you wouldn't give them the drugs just because they think they need them and they asked you for them. That isn't love. Encouraging and helping to convince them to ween off the drugs would be love, but it would also be painful. Same as telling an obese person that has an unhealthy lifestyle they are beautiful and there is nothing wrong with them. This is doing more harm than good for that person. In the moment they might feel nice and warm and fuzzy, but in the long run it is only enabling them. This is not real love.
The problem is that our liberal society today is against this. It's always about instant gratification and getting and doing what you want for as little effort as possible all while pushing as many moral boundaries as possible in the name of acceptance. And unfortunately it's these people who are making things bad for people like refugees in the long run. I'ts an attitude that sets them up for failure and instead of becoming assets by teaching them to pull themselves up by their bootstraps by applying good old fashioned American elbow grease, they become leaches who think they are entitled to all kinds of things because of their "victim-hood" status.
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