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When are we gonna stop pretending that females can be just as effective in combat as males?

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"PeOpLe On ThIs SiTe ArE a JoKe"
Speaking mostly from my own experiences. This isn't the first OBVIOUSLY misogynistic post I've encountered this week. It's stunning people would be so open with it.
 

Zoro7

Banned
The average joe will ofcourse lose a fight to a train female fighter. But when you have a male and female trained to the same degree. The guy will more than not win. That’s my opinion.
 
Speaking mostly from my own experiences. This isn't the first OBVIOUSLY misogynistic post I've encountered this week. It's stunning people would be so open with it.

I hate to generalize, cause overall this place is rad, but the tone here can definitely be offputting at times to say the least.
 

01011001

Banned
Tomb Raider, TLOU, Horizon are just a few examples of games (I know there are more but these stuck to me) I played this gen where you’re made to believe that physically significantly weaker sex can overpower hordes of men like they are joke. I don’t mind having female leads but it does create huge ludonarrative dissonance in my head.

So I’m playing modern Tomb Raider for the first time since it‘s PS Plus monthly game and notion that she can just strangle big muscle men with her bow like it’s nothing is absurd. It doesn’t work. I know people will mention how it’s also not realistic that Nathan Drake can gun down hundreds of people in his games but I think about it this way: if he can win in a single gunfight against 1 man it’s realistic in people’s minds that he can win in multiple ones.
Now, chances of any female winning in a single fight against physically larger and stronger men in real life is very small. Maybe through some trick or cleverness but not likely. Yet you can see what Ellie does or Lara or Alloy or anyone else.

I’m not emphasizing skill with guns because, obviously, females can be almost just as good there (although also not likely) or in cases where your enemies are zombies like in Resident Evil or similar games.

My point is, yes, make games with female leads as much as you like (though vast majority of AAA gamers are male) but put them in realistic scenarios that don’t always necessarily have to include melee violence because it just feels off.

why do I get OAG vibes from this 🤣
 

godhandiscen

There are millions of whiny 5-year olds on Earth, and I AM THEIR KING.
Aliens, resurrections, super hero abilities, etc. OP draws the line for his suspension of disbelief at women being competent though...

Speaking mostly from my own experiences. This isn't the first OBVIOUSLY misogynistic post I've encountered this week. It's stunning people would be so open with it.

It’s good to hold these discussions. A person won’t realize the error of their ways unless they are presented with compelling arguments. To censor these discussions would be wrong.
 
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Fbh

Member
Speaking mostly from my own experiences. This isn't the first OBVIOUSLY misogynistic post I've encountered this week. It's stunning people would be so open with it.

So?
The cool thing about GAF is that OP is still allowed to make this thread even if, as most replies above yours show, the vast majority of users disagree with him. Instead of banning him and promoting an echo chamber where only one opinion is accepted, the people you just called a joke took the time to explain why they disagree.

But this is getting off topic so no point in discussing any more in this thread. I'm just saying, if you want a place where you'll never a see a thread you disagree with and the only users who are allowed to post are ones with the same opinions, values and ideas as yours, I'm not sure you'll like GAF.
 
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GRIEVEZ

Member
Climbing is actually one of very few sports where the performance gap between men and women is extremely small, or, in some cases, non-existent. In younger age groups girls even tend to outperform boys. This is because what really matters for climbing isn't strength alone, but your strength in relation to your weight, and teenage girls can't be beat there.
To add to this... people who boulder have incredibly grip strength.

Juji mufu (a "bodybuilder") has a bunch of videos on grip strength and the gist of it is. These people have impressive (grip) strength/weight ratio.

Skip to 4:45. Also its not like Juji is weak sauce lol...

 
Spaghetti armed 140lb man isn't stronger because he's a man. Lots of soft men out there that couldn't hold a candle physically to a lot of women.
 

Cyborg

Member
OP its a game. Does it realy matter?

Its not like you believe a male character can defeat a god or jump of a 50ft building without problems.

Its entertainment for people who love to enjoy games and it really doesn’t matter if you play as male/female.
 

GrayFoxPL

Member
Aliens, resurrections, super hero abilities, etc. OP draws the line for his suspension of disbelief at women being competent though...

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sn0man

Member
The problem is that feminists have a big inferiority complex regarding to males, so they have to pretend at all costs that females are as strong as males.

There was a time in which being a strong woman meant much more than being just a literally physically strong person, but those nuances are sexist, apparently.




Those are just the mechanics of videogames. It would be silly to defeat 3 enemies and ending the game there.

But yes, it's incredibly far more believable to have a man doing it than to have a let's say; a toddler.

but is feminism (wanting to treat women and men as equally as possible) the bad guy here? Men and women alike want to play as each gender/sex/whatever we are supposed to call it in a fictional hobby of video games.

There is a time now when being a strong man can include embracing female protagonists in a fictional hobby.
 
So?
The cool thing about GAF is that OP is still allowed to make this thread even if, as most replies above your show, the vast majority of users disagree with him. Instead of banning him and promoting an echo chamber where only one opinion is accepted, the people you just called a joke took the time to explain why they disagree.

But this is getting off topic so no point in discussing any more in this thread. I'm just saying, if you want a place where you'll never a see a thread you disagree with and the only users who are allowed to post are ones with the same opinions, values and ideas as yours, I'm not sure you'll like GAF.
Nah its fine. Op wants to say stupid shit.I can call it like it see it here and not worry about poorly defined bans. I do think some people have come here looking to shitpost because it will stay up and can't be downvotes. Who likes a popularity contest anyway?
 

AV

We ain't outta here in ten minutes, we won't need no rocket to fly through space
Nah its fine. Op wants to say stupid shit.I can call it like it see it here and not worry about poorly defined bans. I do think some people have come here looking to shitpost because it will stay up and can't be downvotes. Who likes a popularity contest anyway?

But you're calling it completely wrong. This is like the 4th time in a month I've seen you pop up in threads related to gender to shit on the forum, and your backhanded "well good for that guy" appearance in the Colin Moriarty thread wasn't subtle.

99% of the people in this thread are calling OP's bullshit out. If you still think "the site" is so bad, you could just leave, why are you even here?
 

A.Romero

Member
Like Nathan Drake can climb for hours without getting tired or Ezio Auditore can actually jump face first from a 30m+ height into a stack of hay and not hurt himself...

I seriously don't get it. Why some people need female strength to be portrayed realistically in a game?
 
Aliens, resurrections, super hero abilities, etc. OP draws the line for his suspension of disbelief at women being competent though...



It’s good to hold these discussions. A person won’t realize the error of their ways unless they are presented with compelling arguments. To censor these discussions would be wrong.
Guys I'm not coming in hot from a Restera ban wanting to close the thread. I just wanted to called the kinds of posters that think like this stupid. You gotta understand I stated using the site again heavily when The last if us 2 came out.... I've been getting educated on some of the views around here ever since.
 

godhandiscen

There are millions of whiny 5-year olds on Earth, and I AM THEIR KING.
Guys I'm not coming in hot from a Restera ban wanting to close the thread. I just wanted to called the kinds of posters that think like this stupid. You gotta understand I stated using the site again heavily when The last if us 2 came out.... I've been getting educated on some of the views around here ever since.

All good. Anyway, I hope OP understands how ridiculous his perspective is after looking at the replies.
 
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But you're calling it completely wrong. This is like the 4th time in a month I've seen you pop up in threads related to gender to shit on the forum, and your backhanded "well good for that guy" appearance in the Colin Moriarty thread wasn't subtle.

99% of the people in this thread are calling OP's bullshit out. If you still think "the site" is so bad, you could just leave, why are you even here?
Ok I don't want to be seen as that guy so I'll fall back then. Honestly tho who watches his stuff? I don't even know what the beef was about because I never watched the PlayStation ign podcast. I'll chill tho because it's looks like I have an agenda. I was just surprised by some takes here.
 

Stuart360

Member
Ok I don't want to be seen as that guy so I'll fall back then. Honestly tho who watches his stuff? I don't even know what the beef was about because I never watched the PlayStation ign podcast. I'll chill tho because it's looks like I have an agenda. I was just surprised by some takes here.
Do you come from REE by any chance?. Different views are allowed on this forum, within reason obviously. Gaf is no hive mind.
 

AV

We ain't outta here in ten minutes, we won't need no rocket to fly through space
Ok I don't want to be seen as that guy so I'll fall back then. Honestly tho who watches his stuff? I don't even know what the beef was about because I never watched the PlayStation ign podcast. I'll chill tho because it's looks like I have an agenda. I was just surprised by some takes here.

No sweat, not attacking you, just hate state-of-the-forum whinging and it usually results in people getting booted pretty quickly. I don't watch Moriarty any more either, it just seemed way too suspect that you had chosen him specifically to not-congratulate when his whole controversy was about a (very, very mild) misogynistic joke.

Anyway, no beef, we can agree that OP's tripping.
 

Tomeru

Member
I can see what op is saying.

Now if you just give them women some weap

Oh hold up a second.

Op, are you suggesting that Lara cant win a one on one gun fight?
 
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llien

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Posts in a thread with 70+ replies mostly disagreeing with OP
"PeOpLe On ThIs SiTe ArE a JoKe"
It just proves his point.
You are all pretending.

I wish I was joking, but it's exactly as it went with the "poor womxn, DV will raise" in Italy. When number of DV calls actually dropped, it still somehow proved, DV was on the rise.

Speaking mostly from my own experiences. This isn't the first OBVIOUSLY misogynistic post I've encountered this week. It's stunning people would be so open with it.
It's silly, but there is no women hating to it.
 
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IDKFA

I am Become Bilbo Baggins
My wife has spent 20 years training in krav maga. I'm sure she could kick the shit out of a majority of the men on this forum with ease.
 

Shai-Tan

Banned
Speaking mostly from my own experiences. This isn't the first OBVIOUSLY misogynistic post I've encountered this week. It's stunning people would be so open with it.

it's a catch-22: say nothing and they get social license from repeating it in an ideological circle jerk, or pile on and give a dumb take disproportionate attention. i'd rather they bathe in disagreement because bans will often end up sending people with fringe ideas into to echo chambers that feed resentment

it's kind of annoying when they are in the majority and it's probably a knock on effect from other forums purifying their user base but some of those other forums became echo chambers with so many taboos that the only people who speak honestly are true believers with more extreme beliefs than average who are constantly engaging in "offense archaeology"
 

Raven117

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Going to file this under I don’t give a shit. A good game is good regardless of how polygons form shapes to make a character look female or male.

Just take it easy OP. This really isn’t a big deal.
 
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Zog

Banned
The fact you are this bothered that women in videogames are "effective in combat" is bizarre. Has the disdain for women here gotten this bad?
The disdain for men in general is much higher than the disdain for women in general so get off your high horse, this is about realism in video games not misogyny.
 
it's a catch-22: say nothing and they get social license from repeating it in an ideological circle jerk, or pile on and give a dumb take disproportionate attention. i'd rather they bathe in disagreement because bans will often end up sending people with fringe ideas into to echo chambers that feed resentment

it's kind of annoying when they are in the majority and it's probably a knock on effect from other forums purifying their user base but some of those other forums became echo chambers with so many taboos that the only people who speak honestly are true believers with more extreme beliefs than average who are constantly engaging in "offense archaeology"
True, honestly this has been a refreshing experience because I dislike one place for being an extreme only to come to another place and get the opposite extreme. MSNBC v. Fox News both suck because they are two extremes. I'm glad to see so many people seeing OP for what it is. But again I don't want to push any angendas because I think for myself, regardless of what the group thinks. I have been mostly responding negatively. I made some poor assumptions about Neogaf. So I'mma fall back from certain commentary for a while.
 

Jon Neu

Banned
I don't at all, only the people that criticise it where it doesn't exist. You're boxing shadows. How in the ungodly fuck is Lara Croft being able to dominate men a "politically charged design decision"? She's the playable character, she's been doing it for almost 25 years. It's just looking for something to be angry about for the sake of it.

We have literally devs saying their games have a political agenda based on the likes of Anita Sarkeesian, yet there's always someone claiming we are "imagining" things.

Still, the point stands.
 

Tesseract

Banned
doesn't matter at all in video games

it will start to matter in vr, already seeing glimpses of that with pavlov and contractors
 

Jon Neu

Banned
but is feminism (wanting to treat women and men as equally as possible) the bad guy here? Men and women alike want to play as each gender/sex/whatever we are supposed to call it in a fictional hobby of video games.

There is a time now when being a strong man can include embracing female protagonists in a fictional hobby.

They are literally mad because you could play as Alexios in Assassin's Creed Oddysey instead of Kassandra.

Yes, they are the bad guy here.
 

Pantz

Member
It's a video game. You can make a domestic cat just as effective in combat as human males. If you don't like the games, don't play them. There's plenty of other games out there to choose from.
 

Jon Neu

Banned
The disdain for men in general is much higher than the disdain for women in general so get off your high horse, this is about realism in video games not misogyny.

The habitual white knights are going to claim that you hate/fear womyn if you aren't onboard with third wave feminism and it's application on videogames.

It's the level of discourse they are habituated to. They just strawman a little bit till they finally go batshit crazy and start calling people misogynists, racists, nazis and what not.

The bad thing for them is that this is not ERA, we can call them on their bullshit here without being dogpiled and banned.
 
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EviLore

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Offering a male/female protagonist option with identical strength and abilities, where appropriate to the game design (e.g. Dark Souls, not The Witcher where a defined character exists), makes a lot of sense and helps include more gamers. In those cases I suggest letting it go and playing as the male if the idea bothers you.

When a narrative-based game grounded in some degree of reality chooses a female protagonist, some level of awareness of the differences between men and women helps with immersion and suspension of disbelief, e.g. Ellie in TLOU using stealth, surprise, and blades in close quarters rather than punching it out head-on like Joel.

For an example of how not to do it, Joss Whedon has a history of casting skinny, unathletic 90 lb models as action heroines who beat up 6’2 220 lb tough guys hand-to-hand, and it’s never been anything resembling believable.

Of course, Joss was a Hero of Feminism for his Strong Female Characters, but only did it to sleep with all the starlets he cast. Game devs don’t even have that excuse.
 
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Ogbert

Member
In video games it's not an issue at all; it's fun to create non-realistic characters.

Sadly, we do have to pretend it's the case in real life. I have no idea how long this current derangement will last. It feels like until we have a full on stint of communism in any given Western country, this sort of group think will continue to exist.

Also, don't send you're kids to college unless they're going to study Maths, Physics, Engineering, Law or Medicine.
 

Xenon

Member
Dude Im pretty sure it would be easy to find a real live woman who could kick your ass. Sure on average the man would be stronger. But since when have games been focused on average characters?
 

jshackles

Gentlemen, we can rebuild it. We have the capability to make the world's first enhanced store. Steam will be that store. Better than it was before.
These may be power fantasies and tropes in games and media, but the consequences of normalizing this belief have also become a bit of a problem. There are several cases I'm aware of personally where a man overpowered a woman physically, and the questioning (even in court) is "why didn't you fight back?" or "why didn't you fight him off?"
 

Jon Neu

Banned
Climbing is actually one of very few sports where the performance gap between men and women is extremely small, or, in some cases, non-existent. In younger age groups girls even tend to outperform boys. This is because what really matters for climbing isn't strength alone, but your strength in relation to your weight along with flexibility, and teenage girls can't be beat in those categories.

That's factually untrue.

.

Again, men perform way better than women.
 

Kamina

Golden Boy
The average man is stronger than the average woman.
Most people know this, and except of a few men-hating feminists nobody cares.
The fact that exactly these feminists are now indoctrinating game developers is not so good however.
 

Roufianos

Member
I don't really think this is a big deal in games where there's always a suspension of disbelief that even a male protagonist could kill that many people.

Beyond video games, it is ridiculous that it's has become controversial in some circles to acknowledge that men are physically stronger than women.
 
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Azurro

Banned
I think it depends a lot on whatever other world this videogame is presenting to you. If it's an over the top action game a la Bayonetta, then sure, it's fun to play, or bloodborne, which is very much a dark fantasy game. Playing as Lara Croft or 2B was fun as the games were quite aware of the type of fantasy games they are. However, if the game is a lot more serious and presented in a much more realistic way, in a realistic world, then that's where it's jarring.

If a game goes to big lengths to be as realistic as possible and then brings along a tiny slender woman beating the shit out of guys twice her weight and size, or a huge ass woman in a world where the necessary conditions to have that don't exist, then that's where I can't suspend my disbelief, as the character goes against everything the rest of the game demands of me.

I think a better middle ground is someone like Alloy, who makes use of tools and technology aside from being pretty skilled in her moves.
 
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nkarafo

Member
It's videogames. But in some Japanese fighting games where you can have tiny girl characters that look like children fighting against male giants it gets funny.
 
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