Mr. Giggles
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Ah whiskey dick.
My old nemesis
My old nemesis
I have to admit that I understand that horrible sinking feeling when you realize you've whisky dick and it's not going to happen and you're mentally like "fuck how am I going to explain this shit."
You put your pants on and resume drinking
Agreed. Get that mouth workin'. God gave it to you for a reason, and it wasn't licking stamps.So, you didn't even go down on her? That's the least you could've done.
The whole "If you're a man and you can't perform sexually EVERY SINGLE TIME you're less of a man" is bullshit.
Sometimes it's drugs or alcohol, sometimes it's nerves, sometimes it's stress from other parts of your life, sometimes you're just not in the mood.
In your case, I'd say there's a few factors at play.
For people shitting on the OP for calling a stop to it, if you're swinging and one party is no longer enjoying themselves, you stop, end of fucking story.
Lmao at everyone,
Yeah op was just supposed to let his wife get railed while he sits there with a limp dick, yall are taking this acting like your a damn saint on the internet too far
you think he just said to them "we should stop" and everyone just stopped and got dressed without op explaining to them why
I mean he was going to let her get railed as long as he was allowed to get his dick wet too. Was it an exchange of goods or were they just having a good time with some free love? I hope the OP didn't think of it as trading cause that would not be too cool.
...if everybody was consenting on that basis, why would it not be cool?
Some modern day Puritans up in this thread.
I imagine the people who think or say that aren't actually having much sex.
everyone has off nights. LeBron doesn't score 30 every game
To me, equating masculinity to sex in the first place is pretty dumb.
don't worry OP, that happens to everyone, you're still a man, thinking that is freaking bullshit, you can't always be perfect!
And i assure you there's worst... the only time i had chance to have sex, was the time i couldn't get it up, maybe too nervous but still... never got an other shot since then, and i'm affraid that if an other time comes, i will have the same problem!
Good thing i don't really care, if i have an other opportunity, i'll try my best, that's it
I imagine the people who think or say that aren't actually having much sex.
everyone has off nights. LeBron doesn't score 30 every game
He averages around 30 a game tho 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
whats this whiskey dick everyone is talking about?
wouldn't drinking help with any anxiety or nerves and actually enable an erection?
A four-way is a thing but this is not that. This is just couple swap.Alcohol limits the ability of your blood vessels to dilate, and enough can just make it so you can't get an erection.
Also is there really such a thing as a four-way, or is it just two couples having sex next to each other?
That's cause Bron has the right mentality and is committed to being the best every time he steps onto the court
I know if my head isn't in the game, I'll lose a hard on no matter what's happening.
whats this whiskey dick everyone is talking about?
wouldn't drinking help with any anxiety or nerves and actually enable an erection?
Lmao at everyone,
Yeah op was just supposed to let his wife get railed while he sits there with a limp dick, yall are taking this acting like your a damn saint on the internet too far
I dont think the definition of what it strictly was matters much. If his girlfriend wasnt into it and wanted to stop having sex with the other dude and OP and the other girl were getting off on each other just fine, would anyone say wow she made you stop midway? What a cockblocker! If she wanted him to stop as well? I dont think they would.I mean he was going to let her get railed as long as he was allowed to get his dick wet too. Was it an exchange of goods or were they just having a good time with some free love? I hope the OP didn't think of it as trading cause that would not be too cool.
don't worry OP, that happens to everyone, you're still a man, thinking that is freaking bullshit, you can't always be perfect!
And i assure you there's worst... the only time i had chance to have sex, was the time i couldn't get it up, maybe too nervous but still... never got an other shot since then, and i'm affraid that if an other time comes, i will have the same problem!
Good thing i don't really care, if i have an other opportunity, i'll try my best, that's it
I dont think the definition of what it strictly was matters much. If his girlfriend wasnt into it and wanted to stop having sex with the other dude and OP and the other girl were getting off on each other just fine, would anyone say wow she made you stop midway? What a cockblocker! If she wanted him to stop as well? I dont think they would.
If OPs requirement to allowing another man fuck his girlfriend infront of his face was an equivalent exchange of semen expulsion then theres nothing wrong with that.
The issue I see is that rather than being uncomfortable with the situation like you are describing with the girlfriend (not into it), the OP stopped her because he didn't feel he was getting a fair trade. I feel a little hinkey about that commodotization of his girlfriend.
If he was having trouble with feelings the foursome was bringing up in him or whatever, I get it but that's not what he described. Seems a little objectifying.
man, non-monogamy is complicated as shit.
whats this whiskey dick everyone is talking about?
wouldn't drinking help with any anxiety or nerves and actually enable an erection?
Lmao at everyone,
Yeah op was just supposed to let his wife get railed while he sits there with a limp dick, yall are taking this acting like your a damn saint on the internet too far
Maybe you missed this bit in the OP. Maybe he didn't explain the situation and his feelings correctly.The issue I see is that rather than being uncomfortable with the situation like you are describing with the girlfriend (not into it), the OP stopped her because he didn't feel he was getting a fair trade. I feel a little hinkey about that commodotization of his girlfriend.
If he was having trouble with feelings the foursome was bringing up in him or whatever, I get it but that's not what he described. Seems a little objectifying.
I mean he calls it a foursome when it's obviously a partner swap.It's kind of hard to write about this, but I'll try the best I can. English is not my first language, so please excuse any mistakes.
These situations are not emotionless things, if someone is not feeling it they are totally entitled to changed their mind about continuing. And if he and his GF have a good relationship you would expect her to have his emotional feelings as a priority. These things break up relationships because people don't respect other people's feelings. Everyone should be enojoying it not just some.Oh, but I did go down on her, more than once.
I'll try to clarify the "fairness" thing. I know it's shitty, but it would make me feel even worse not being able to do anything and just watch.
Also is there really such a thing as a four-way said:You can't have three girls and 1 guy or 3 guys and 1 girl? or two couples all involved together? My imagination can stretch on and on, sadly lol