I've seen plenty of bad arguments online, yes, you were making it sound like yours were so good they were factual, so I wanted to see yours.
I suppose you're genuine so let's do it.
There's a thing called "arbitrarity and tyranny" of the writer.
It means that the writer is a sole God in his books, he can do anything arbitrary to the characters and can rationalize it in any way.
He can put the characters in situations where their only choice is what author wants them to do.
Arbitrarity is considered a not comme il faut, i.e. it's a bad writing. Although it's true - the author is a God.
If author plays God too much the audience feels as if he is condescending, speaking from a high horse.
So, good writers play a game: they make sure that audience can never suspect that author is playing God and not telling a genuine, true story.
It's like dating, you don't say on the first date: undress we gonna have sex.
You play a game, where the ultimate goal of both parties is to make a relationship that lasts. Although in reality the writer is just fucks you in the mind in the end.
In case of TLOU2 it's an immediate tyranny. As if author says to the audience: I'm almighty in my books and can inject a new character in my book and you will like it, because you're my bitch!
But how do I know that it's a God's play?
Simple: too much coincidence.
Abbie meets Joel and Tommy in a way that they cannot refuse to be taken.
Ellie kills each and every of "Abbie's friends" while not really wanting that.
Ellie conveniently leaves the map in the Aquarium.
Abbie father is the only real surgeon alive, the only one that can make a vaccine.
Etc. etc.
In short the odds are always, like really always on Abbie's side.
Even in the end Ellie finds her in a pretty destroyed state where killing her will not make it better.
So, it's like author is deliberately toying with the audience: you see I can write it in such a way that you cannot win, now listen to the condescending monologue on "revenge is bad" from me!
The best course of action for a smart audience is go for the "last argument", which is pretty simple: "Author, you're shit and your book is shit". That's it. Liking something is subjective.
Audience is in their right to call any book or author "pure shit". An nobody can blame them.
TL;DR when author is going for the direct "I'm going to gang-bang your mind", the audience can say: "your dick is too small for that, get lost".