Hi guys, I just noticed this thread and I actually have some stuff to ask
I've been with my gf for about 9-10 months now. I'm 20 and she's 19 ( soon to be 20 too)
She's a very religious girl, and for no sex before marriage. It's the same for me, so it's cool. I don't mind at all.
The problem is that, well, she literally never wants to kiss me, hug me or even hold my hand. At first I thought that was normal because she's kind of shy, but now it's been 10 months and she's still the same. When I try to hug her she basically goes '' get off me, stop '' and it's the same for even trying to hold her hand. I was okay with it but now i'm just getting tired of it. I did try talking to her and saying that I seriously am not liking that she NEVER wants to, and all she had to answer was '' well showing love with a hug sucks anyways, talking and being together is better''.
I can only remember ONE time during this whole relationship where she was the one to want to kiss me.
I'm getting kind of tired of this, because I know that after marriage I want to ,well, have sex. But seeing how she is so relunctant to just do basic stuff now almost 1 year in the relationship i'm starting to be afraid she'll just never want to..