Did you at least get a Nanaimo bar? :/
I didn't 😭 No Tim Hortons either. I was counting on that being at the airport there, I thought Tim Horton was everywhere.
Did you at least get a Nanaimo bar? :/
I'm going to invite this girl to a second date but I want to be more physical (hold hands,kiss etc)but how I will know when is the right time to do that? Because I want to give her the message I want to be more than friends.
Sorry for the broken English
do any of you ever date people you're not attracted to?
do any of you ever date people you're not attracted to?
do any of you ever date people you're not attracted to?
I didn't 😭 No Tim Hortons either. I was counting on that being at the airport there, I thought Tim Horton was everywhere.
That's was mint hahahaha
People are usually busy over a long weekend. The fact that she messaged you means she was thinking about you. If she wanted to ghost you she would've done so already.
Message her back, ask her about what she did over the holiday, and then eventually ask her out again.
Hey I could use some advice What are some good conversion tips for online dating? This girl sent me 2 messages yesterday and I replied earlier today. However I feel kinda lost on what to say now any advice or tips?
There's definitely a Timmy's there...had some there last time I was at YVR.
Poutine? Or did you manage to miss out on all Canadian junk food?
Hey I could use some advice What are some good conversion tips for online dating? This girl sent me 2 messages yesterday and I replied earlier today. However I feel kinda lost on what to say now any advice or tips?
Had poutine, it sucked so bad.
Inside the international terminal there was no Timmy! Maybe domestic? I'll come back to Canada someday and try it I guess.
haha yeah, I typed that as I was playing Division with a friend Gotcha thanks.Hope you mean conversation.
Just depends what the conversation is about how can we tell you what to say after her two messages and your one, without knowing the content of those messages. As always though it should be conversation about meeting in person, setting up a date. Small talk can happen when you meet.
Had poutine, it sucked so bad.
Inside the international terminal there was no Timmy! Maybe domestic? I'll come back to Canada someday and try it I guess.
Yeah thats true.Get to an in-person meet asap. Don't have a "conversation" over messages.
haha yeah, I typed that as I was playing Division with a friend Gotcha thanks.
Yeah thats true.
Whats the best way to get around to doing that? Just ask straight up if she want to grab a coffee sometimes?
I talked to her. She said she's playing the field.
Time to move on.
Why the hell would you ever date someone you're not attracted to?do any of you ever date people you're not attracted to?
Had poutine, it sucked so bad.
Hey I could use some advice What are some good conversion tips for online dating? This girl sent me 2 messages yesterday and I replied earlier today. However I feel kinda lost on what to say now any advice or tips?
You had bad poutine then. It should both clog your arteries and be delicious.
I'm pretty sure I was in international last time I had Timmy's.
ABC: Always Be Closing, brah.
Had poutine the first time last month at Mont Tremblant at Smokes Poutinerie. This was called "Gloutonne". Pulled pork, bacon, and sausage, fries, curds, and gravy. Very good. Fortunately there was 4 of us sharing it.
What should I think about this.
Been on two dates. We hit it off pretty well. She told me before hand (before the first date) she wasn't really feeling like getting into a relationship, but she thought I was cool. We text and snap every once in a while, and it's always dope too.
But if I don't initiate contact, she will just not talk to me. It's really weird. It went three days before I hit her back up.
And Vern and I had awful poutine in Beijing.
Can attest to the Timmy's at International departures. Maybe you didn't go down far enough? There's also a Burger King.
Funny story: I flew to New York, took the subway from JFK, and when I got off to transfer to another train, there was a Tim Horton's right there.
Hey guys, I followed the advice about being direct, I got her number and we are going to get lunch tomorrow. Any suggestions for conversation and small talk?Yes, being direct is best. Ask her for a drink on a weeknight.
ha I am guessing you mean I should be the one to end the chat?ABC: Always Be Closing, brah.
Hey guys, I followed the advice about being direct, I got her number and we are going to get lunch tomorrow. Any suggestions for conversation and small talk? ha I am guessing you mean I should be the one to end the chat?
Ugh, I'm so sexually frustrated, I dunno how to deal with it other than go to the gym, lift and get swole. Watching porn makes me sad because I tend to watch amateur porn on PornHub (only type of porn that I actually like), and seeing these loving couples fuck reminds me of what I don't have in my life.
Went for it and asked the Asian qt to go on a coffee date with me. I hope for the best.
I looked everywhere, I even looked on the little map thing. No Tim hortons was listed. Oh well it doesn't matter, not a big donut guy anyway. And it'll be there when I go back to Canada some day I'm sure of it.
Why?
Do you expect her to be exclusive to you after two dates, which were months apart? C'mon, dude.
Even if she is not "the one" you really need to get more experience and get out of your shell more, and this girl seems to be receptive to that. You are not going to move forward in a positive fashion if you continue to go out of your way to find something to check off on your laundry list of possible faults, real or imagined. This sort of thing is common in online dating, but the harsh truth is that there's not likely to be that "perfect" person out there for you where fireworks will go off and your heart will flutter the millisecond you meet them, that sort of thing is really more of a myth perpetuated by romcoms and the like.
She may be "playing the field" because you have shown very little initiative towards her, so she may feel like you are not into her. If you go on another date and initiate contact, that will show her that you like her and would like to move the relationship along, instead of doing something like point-blank asking her to be your girlfriend.
Ugh, I'm so sexually frustrated, I dunno how to deal with it other than go to the gym, lift and get swole. Watching porn makes me sad because I tend to watch amateur porn on PornHub (only type of porn that I actually like), and seeing these loving couples fuck reminds me of what I don't have in my life.
Hey guys, I followed the advice about being direct, I got her number and we are going to get lunch tomorrow. Any suggestions for conversation and small talk? ha I am guessing you mean I should be the one to end the chat?
I wouldn't say no if she asked me out again, but I don't think I want to pester her. It took her this long to respond to me, and she's still dealing with a lot of mental stuff (she's not alone, as I do, too, but she says things have been hard). She doesn't seem to know what she wants, and I don't want to be messed with.
She doesn't seem incredibly interested, and just said she's playing the field, so we'll see.
I think I do a good job (I hope) of not seeming desperate IRL. I only express those thoughts on the internet, honestly.
I wouldn't say no if she asked me out again, but I don't think I want to pester her. It took her this long to respond to me, and she's still dealing with a lot of mental stuff (she's not alone, as I do, too, but she says things have been hard). She doesn't seem to know what she wants, and I don't want to be messed with.
She doesn't seem incredibly interested, and just said she's playing the field, so we'll see.
If you're so desperate that you get sad from watching porn, you're subconsciously giving off desperate vibes IRL. You should consider seeing a therapist.
I just feel that if she was actually interested, or cared enough about me, she wouldn't have been mostly silent for a week and would have said more than she did.
I already see a CBT therapist. And I wish I hadn't typed all that out, that was a mistake, and now I feel stupid, especially since I've been quoted.
I just feel that if she was actually interested, or cared enough about me, she wouldn't have been mostly silent for a week and would have said more than she did.
That sounds like your depression talking. You're coming up with reasons why it will fail to convince yourself that trying isn't worth it. Do you want to go out with her again? If the answer is "yes", ask her out. If she yes or no, you can move on from whereever you're at now.
Oh, and with online dating comes the understanding that everyone you meet will be playing the field. You're not exclusive until you are.
She didn't respond when I said, "When can I see you again?"
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There are 5(!) at the airport.
It hasn't been the same since all their stuff became prepackaged and frozen, so you aren't missing out on much.