Congrats on the wedding-to-be! You better come back with pics after the honeymoon :3
To the regulars, I'll be drafting up the new OT this weekend. I can use y'all's help on what you wanna see with the OT! I'm hoping it'll be a kind of thing we can use to maybe direct people to for the most common questions (how do I get the gurl--why don't they respond--good books to read--etc).
So, I'm looking for any suggestions on the following:
- New thread name
- Commonly asked questions
- If you or someone else has a post that you think has specifically awesome advice, give me a link to add to the OT
- Books, blogs, and outside resources for dating advice
- Whatever
I'll be scouring the later pages of the thread to find stuff where I can, but any help/suggestions/whatever is welcome :3
If anyone has any suggestions for a new OT, message me to make sure I see it~~
I'm going to state my preference for combining the Dating-Age and Online Dating threads, since 98% of the questions refer to "how can I get a date?" and "I've met this girl once and sent her my picture, what next?" Because it's a distinction with a difference, I'd suggest a separate Relationship-Age thread. I feel like, if done right, the OP could answer a ton of relevant questions, too --
Q: Am I overthinking this?
A: Yes.
... like that.
Anyway, instead of overwhelming people with books and blogs, I'd establish a
required reading section. In other words, I think everyone should read this article, and I've linked to it several times:
https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes. It's an 8 minute read, so negligible effort. Beyond that, there's the standard recommendations: Manson's other book, Aziz's Modern Romance, and Dataclysm by the OKCupid guys. I'll toss in one that I've found helpful and interesting, because at the end of the day, the relationship that matters most to everyone is
the one they have with themselves:
Be the Person You Want to Find, by Cheri Huber.
There's also an eloquent way to state this, but incorporating the idea of "would you date you?" into the OP might help too. Because we've all responded to the OP (or variations thereof) that's basically, "I'm really depressed. I have no hobbies and I think I'm unattractive. Why am I not getting any matches on Tinder?" I almost feel like that's a niche that warrants a thread all its own, but I'm not quite sure.
Anyway, thread title ideas! And some have been suggested before!
Dating-Age |OT6| "DATE ME. NOW!" - Jason's Ultimatum
Dating-Age |OT6| We Spent 20 Pokeballs on a Zubat
Dating-Age |OT6| You're Overthinking It
Dating-Age |OT6| Just Ask Her Out Already