Kung Fu Jedi
Member
Seriously, why is it that 8 months after breaking up a 4 year relationship that was really done I feel heartbroken when I notice that my ex has a new lover?
Im 36 years old damnit, this shouldnt hurt me at all, I mean she has every right to do whatever the fuck she wants, but the idea of some other guy with her now, sigh .
I now deleted her from every social media I had her on cause I really cant seem to take it at this moment, while I feel like I would be a man if I could be just happy for her or something
This is a pretty normal reaction. You may have moved on, and even be over her, but there is still some residual feelings that are tough to get past, particularly if you're not dating anyone at the time. I wouldn't sweat it too much, like I said, this is a normal reaction. Just keeping moving ahead, and focus on yourself.